the conditioning is not as important to help you so much towards passing the lmr to get to sex as it will towards her looking up to you and giving you attention, she's a virgin so she can like you all she wants, chances are she will still be anxious about this no matter how effectively you use operant/classical conditioning
you would probably be better off focusing on framing sex as no big deal, as well as doing a list of several other things to lower asd (look up asd if you don't know what those things are), it also might be fairly productive for you to simply not try to ''get sex'' but rather just start giving her makeouts without asking, and going down her pants without asking, and if she seems uncomfortable with it or your are getting heavy resistance, don't pressure her, instead just back off and try again after some time, as for the blow jobs, just qualify her to the idea that blowjobs are amazing etc. just talk them up and how amazing they make a guy feel, but flip the frame and start asking her what turns her on etc., don't make it all about you, try to make it as much about her as possible (with a little about how amazing blowjobs are as well as other things that turn you on, don't be afraid to paint her a picture of how good they make you feel and how someone has to be ''special'' for you to let them do that), and remember if you can give it good, you will more likely get it good
just persist and don't make a big deal out of it
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