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| Author: | amogtilldeath [ Mon May 21, 2012 4:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girlfriend says I don't text/call her enough |
Hey guys, So i've started dating this girl for about a month now. Everything is going good and when we're together its awesome. The problem I am having is she seems to be stuck on all the things that she dislikes instead of the things that she likes. She'll say you dont text me ever or don't call me ever and I feel like I always want to talk to you. She went away for vacation and I just gave her space. I didn't initiate any text and she called me 2 days in saying she misses me alot. Then called me again a few days later. She says she can't handle that i dont text her and that I am an ass but sarcastically and I know she means it. My question is: should I text her more and show her more attention? Is it healthy to text everyday when in a relationship? I explained to her that I don't text alot or talk on the phone too much and prefer person to person contact. She is definitely the needy type and needs to be always in contact. |
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| Author: | Furiox [ Mon May 21, 2012 4:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girlfriend says I don't text/call her enough |
Quote: Hey guys,
Your right bro! Person to person is the way to go and always texting each other will kill the relationship however you should text now and then but just fun stuff, not hours chatting about nothing.
So i've started dating this girl for about a month now. Everything is going good and when we're together its awesome. The problem I am having is she seems to be stuck on all the things that she dislikes instead of the things that she likes. She'll say you dont text me ever or don't call me ever and I feel like I always want to talk to you. She went away for vacation and I just gave her space. I didn't initiate any text and she called me 2 days in saying she misses me alot. Then called me again a few days later. She says she can't handle that i dont text her and that I am an ass but sarcastically and I know she means it. My question is: should I text her more and show her more attention? Is it healthy to text everyday when in a relationship? I explained to her that I don't text alot or talk on the phone too much and prefer person to person contact. She is definitely the needy type and needs to be always in contact. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Mon May 21, 2012 4:54 pm ] |
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Drop her a text, letting her know she is on your mind, tease her, some random stuff. One or two exchanges back and forth and then get back to your day. Tell her, "Hey punkin, how's your day?" or "This randomly generated smile was brought to you by amogtilldeath". Little stuff like that will let her know your there but don't get drawn into hours long convos! Peace... |
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| Author: | amogtilldeath [ Mon May 21, 2012 6:50 pm ] |
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Thanks for the reply guys, Yeah I figured this was the right thing to do. I guess I just gave her too much space when she was away on vacation when she is the type to seek more validation. Cheers, |
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| Author: | feature [ Tue May 22, 2012 8:00 am ] |
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For me, I text my girlfriend everyday. It is kinda of a habit for me. I think most of girls wanna get more attention by their boyfriends. |
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| Author: | Furiox [ Tue May 22, 2012 8:11 am ] |
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Quote: For me, I text my girlfriend everyday. It is kinda of a habit for me. I think most of girls wanna get more attention by their boyfriends.
Depending on your girl i wouldn't text her everyday though. Its like when you buy something new and you only use it like 10 times a month, it is far more interesting then when you use it everyday, you will get bored eventually when using it everyday.Just fun jokes/conversations are ok but if she asks you what your doing and all that texting everyday is going to be harmful to your relationship. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue May 22, 2012 8:11 am ] |
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this is not a game changer by any means, it is not meant to give you some sort of upper hand or anything, but you could just keep doing what you're doing and tell her to call and text you more often if she wants to speak more often fuck doing something that isn't you for her, if she can't handle not getting her daily dose of you, tell her to meet you in person then as for the rest of the thread, they are all advising you to comply, you are playing things similar to how I run my game, more likely to not be there, then to be there, ever wounder why she feels like she always wants to talk to you, and always misses you? complying with this shit is just letting her set the frame and lead, if you start texting her every day and hanging out to much, get ready for her to get sick of you fast |
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| Author: | Carlos Rodriguez [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 4:31 pm ] |
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If she wants more attention give it to her, but still limit it. Initiate the text one day and then let her do another and so on. This way you text her, she texts you and everyone is happy (hopefully). Don't have daily contact though, you will run out of things to talk about, you will get bored of each other no matter how badly you want to see/speak to each other. |
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