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Author:  yellowcab [ Mon Apr 23, 2012 11:05 pm ]
Post subject:  MY gf often has sex dreams about other guys
Hey,

My girlfriend I've been with for quite some time is experiencing sex dreams with other men from time to time. Even when we sleep after having sex, that same night.

We are super honest about anything, and when I hear her moaning all night long in her sleep offcourse I ask her.

Well she has sexdreams with other guys hmm, what could that be.
She's super happy with me, mega sexual etc. ( the sex is freacking tantric )

She also told me that when she had sex for the 1st time with her 1st BF she constantly cheated on her BF in her dreams ( like EVERY NIGHT ) with me it's not that bad, just every now and then.

I do wonder what that could mean.
I rarely have sexdreams about other people.

Thank you

Ps: sometimes I even feel guilty when I horny her up on the phone and then say
" i gotta go, yo! " right before she goes to bed, bcause she might use that horniness to fuck another guy in her dreamz :(
Author:  Snake Doctor [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 12:03 am ]
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Well .... that girl is just plain stupid.

We all know girls have wet dreams.

But telling the boyfriend that she is having that feeling for other guys that just plain idiotic in my book.

Where is the respect oh well.
Author:  league [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:21 pm ]
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At least she's honest, i wouldn't of admitted it if i was her
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 2:25 pm ]
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I wonder if they are about me?...lol :twisted:
Author:  Reo [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 5:09 pm ]
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the OP's girlfriend is dreaming about getting rammed by some other guys and he putting smiley face and sticking out tongue faces out on a message board, Like it's something to smile and be happy about!?!


***Ok yellow since you insist you're just a crazy man. Well first off she's stupid for telling you that. How would she feel if you told her you were dreaming about another girl you both know.

I would make her feel the same discomfort she made me feel I'd tell her I had a dream about fucking her best friend Becky.
Author:  yellowcab [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 5:28 pm ]
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Ok that is true, but whether the telling or not telling is a good or bad thing, could any of you give me some insights in why some woman have sexdreams about other guys and if it's anything to be concerned about?
Author:  Snarg [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 6:04 pm ]
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I sometimes have dreams about killing people. Doesn't mean I'd ever kill someone.

I don't think that's the issue, though. She's clearly trying to make you jealous by telling you about this. For all you know, it's all lies just to make you jealous. Just laugh it off and she'll eventually stop. She's pretty immature and disrespectful though.
Author:  vhou812 [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 6:29 pm ]
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Personally, I don't think the gal is dumb, nuts or anything. To the contrary, if your relationship is built on honesty, and you both are cool enough to handle it, I'd say that's a good sign.

She obviously has a high sex drive, and you obviously are a fan of that. Don't hold it against her. If you like her, go with it. Fuck her and get inside her head. The only reason anybody would worry about that is out of their own insecurities. If she fantasizes about fucking other guys, go with it during sex. I had a girl once that let it slip she wanted to fuck my best friend. For awhile after that, the sex was incredible. Found out by working it during sex that the turn on for her was the taboo of fucking my friend, and him liking it so much that he couldn't quit despite having his own girlfriend. The fantasy was being desired THAT much.

If you don't think it's a bad thing that she tells you this, I say use it to your advantage.
Author:  yellowcab [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 6:31 pm ]
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Personally, I don't think the gal is dumb, nuts or anything. To the contrary, if your relationship is built on honesty, and you both are cool enough to handle it, I'd say that's a good sign.

She obviously has a high sex drive, and you obviously are a fan of that. Don't hold it against her. If you like her, go with it. Fuck her and get inside her head. The only reason anybody would worry about that is out of their own insecurities. If she fantasizes about fucking other guys, go with it during sex. I had a girl once that let it slip she wanted to fuck my best friend. For awhile after that, the sex was incredible. Found out by working it during sex that the turn on for her was the taboo of fucking my friend, and him liking it so much that he couldn't quit despite having his own girlfriend. The fantasy was being desired THAT much.

If you don't think it's a bad thing that she tells you this, I say use it to your advantage.
Sounds about right. Her sex drive is insane, seriously. thx
Author:  Hakuna [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 12:57 am ]
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I doubt most people are aware of how many fantasies women have, and how extreme they can get. I wouldn't take it as a "red flag" or anything. Like vhou pointed out, cheating itself, because it's a taboo, is a common fantasy.

90% of the time when a girl hints shit like this to you, it's not to directly offend you, she's just mirroring her internal secks drive. She wants you to be more creative, more dominant in bed, to own her like the pussy IRS. So, for example, if she has a thing for taboos, fuck her in a confession booth.

If a girl has plain lost interest or was planning on being unfaithful, she wouldn't tell you about it. She'd either dump you, or if she's married to you, be more discreet about it unless she knew she could win in court.
Author:  brary [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 8:10 am ]
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I am a huge believer that dreams actually symbolize repressed thoughts and feelings. I think everyone else here left out the part that she CHEATED on her last boyfriend, and now she is having dreams of fucking other dudes, while being the girlfriend of the OP? Sounds a little fishy to me. At least she's trying to change who she is by being honest with her current boyfriend. However, even if this means she thinks about it consciously, it doesn't necessarily mean that she would cheat...
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