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| Author: | 100% [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 7:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | What, no i got drunk and cheated? Help please |
So me and my girl went to a big ass party at our friends house. I started to drink way to much, i am a light weight. So im having a great time and then i noticed my girl sitting hip to hip with some guy at first it was no big deal until it went on for 20 minutes. So then i started to flirting with some hb in front of her. She got mad approaches me and says so its like that. She goes back and continues her conversation with the guy. I walk outside tell her im leaving she gets mad i then spill my drink on her purposely and go back to the party. She then leaves with her friends. She comes back two hours later and sees me making out with a hot chick at the party. How should i explain and or apologize for my actions? |
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| Author: | 100% [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 11:19 am ] |
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GF POINT OF VIEW. this is what really happened. We both went to the party yes its true i sat with a guy only to talk about his girlfriend tgat recently dumped him to be with another guy . I wanted to give him an advise to help him no flirting at all. 100% was staring at us through the window yea i know creep my guy friend then realize him looking at us and got uncomfortable. So we were in a deep conversation and 100% comes in outta no where drunk and comes to us and starts laughing and goes"really so thats how its gonna be" not knowing just assuming my gut friend tries to have a covo with gin and goes hey i like ypur yankees hat. 100% just turns around and leaves. We talked for a few more mins helped him out then i go back inside to the party. I try to find my bf (100%) thebn i see him witg a full cup of beer throws it all over me on purpose and calls me a slut! I was in a mad rage and told him i needs tge car keys so i can get my purse and leace with one of my bestfriend. Once i did that my bff took his friends home i ask my bff to take me back i wanted to see if my boyfriend was okay so he did. I ask one of tge drunk bitches to see where my boyfriend was she told me hes sitting on the couch with a girl. I look over and see him touchibg a girls face i couldn't really see her face it was a blacklight party then he played with her hair and starts to makeout with her touching her inner thighs. I wanted to beat the fuck outta her but i told myself he she wadnt worth it. Broken hearted in tears i run to my bffs car and started to cry i kept twlling myself he was drunk but it was to late i had already accepted he had cheated on me . Ive been gobe for two days trying to figure out want im going to do i already got a place to stay should i leave him or not? I still do care about him and i have cheated ob him early ib our relationship so i guess this is even right? Idk im just so confuse and hurt. I just wish he could stop drinking he wadbt like that when i met him....did i made him like this? Plz help!!! |
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| Author: | Wolfwoodd [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:46 pm ] |
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I make a point to not listen to what girls say, just what they do. With that said, I see a few problems with your actions. First, when you are considerably more drunk then your girlfriend, then you really can't act as the leader in the relationship. Girls HATE that. Second, if her talking to another guy WAS a shit test, then you failed it.. spectacularly. You reacted instead of remaining indifferent. You let her now it bothered you and you retaliated with a jealousy plot-line. This is what insecure girls do. You were acting like an insecure girl. Third, you spilled beer on her.. on purpose. you reacted to the situation by being immature and spiteful. In light of all this, making out with another girl was really the least of your problems. What you SHOULD have done is you should have gone and introduced yourself to the guy. Then you should have flirted with your a girl a bit, made sure she was having a good time, and then you should have gone off and partied it up. At this point I would just go to her and make amends. Admit that you did all these things wrong and then go out of your way to do something nice for her. Then, learn from these mistakes and don't repeat them. -Wolf |
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| Author: | eduardo2 [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 4:55 pm ] |
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Dude, it looks like you were the judge, jury and verdict even before anything happened. well..it did happen, inside your head (as you portray it) Now being drunk can help that, but I'm with you because sometimes a creative mind can create all sort of elaborate scenarios, especially for women, and even more for girlfriends. The best way to handle this for my opinion was to ask her to come over and tell her exactly that you feel envious that she sits for 20 minutes with him. she would actually have LOVED you for that. now, what's done was done. so the best way is to come clean about what motivated you doing this. it's not going to be easy, but I don't see any easy way out of this if you want to keep seeing this girl. hope this helps |
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