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| Author: | The Grinder [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 11:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 25 y/o virginity destroy the relationship we have? |
Here is my situation. I am 25 years old and have never had a true girlfriend. Right now, I have a great relationship with a girl I see every day. We both know we like each other, but have never done anything sexually. She has had a couple serious relationships as well as a child. I am convinced that I am in love with her and she is in love with me. Our current situation makes our relationship on a non-sexual basis very beneficial to both of us. I don't want her to wait any longer because I fear I will lose her and I think sex will make us both happy. I know that she wants to have sex. She has told me many times in the last few months of how she wants to and I don't want to risk losing her to someone else. It would kill me if that happened. So here is my question. If I go to her place and fulfill her wishes, will my lack of experience instantly ruin the relationship? We have never discussed my prior relationships and experiences and she might assume of them, but I never directly told her of my lack of experience. I really want to have sex, but at this point in my life I also want a relationship. Something mentally has blocked me for years from having sex, but I think I have made the necessary improvements in my life in general to make me a desire to have a relationship with. Your thoughts? |
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| Author: | Absoliutas [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 12:26 am ] |
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Wait...what? It is she who want's it and you don't? Stop fapping and you will want to fuck her so hard that you will forget about all that shit about experience. Seriously man if she is worth relationship she won't care that you don't have any experience. If she will, well then fuck her there is planty of fish in the sea. P.s I wouldn't call it a "relationship" if there is no sex involved, so there is nothing to lose 
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:39 pm ] |
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dude, to be honest, if she really like you she will get aroused easy and it won't matter if you lack experience, dont worry, just do what they do on porn, finger her for a bit rub her clit, then put ya dick in and start off with missionary, then if she wants to do something go along with it. Chuck her around and add moves in each time. You'll get it 
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| Author: | needlz [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:58 pm ] |
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Please just have sex with her. |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 5:08 pm ] |
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I think your insecurities are normally , but now seriously. Look at me for example. I only lost my virginity at 22, with a girl with a fair amount of experience. And I sucked at bed because its normally, but in the end it didnt matter WE STARTED DATING AND OUR SEXUAL LIFE IMPROVED, so dont worry its normal. It doenst matter, if she likes you ... and you are confortable on your shoes , you dont have to worry, sex wont change the way she feels about you. Lots of guys with alot of experience still sucked with a girl, so relax. Things will flow naturally trust me. |
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| Author: | The Grinder [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 2:21 am ] |
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Thank you everyone!!! I'm still a little nervous about it. How can guys with tons of experience still suck with girls? LOL I can't wait to do it!!!! but I am so nervous. I hope I can pull this off! |
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| Author: | Sly_Wolf [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 2:35 am ] |
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First time I did it I was a bit nervous but at the same time my pride overcame it as if I had a lot of experience. I didnt care what would happen. I just told myself Im the man, if it doesnt work out with this broad then at least I'll get experience fo the next one so I kept going forward. |
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| Author: | samex [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 3:00 am ] |
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Hey bro, The feelings that you speek of, seem to resonate really deep within the both of you, especially if you talk about how much you two love each other. If that is the case, let her know that you inexperienced. It will remove the stress/burden of you actually having to perform, and as result will actually allow you to perform better. Remember, if that you both love each other, something as small as virginity won't matter. Samex |
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| Author: | Choklate [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 3:36 am ] |
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I'm 19, and the first time I had sex was with a 32 year old milf. and she accused me of lying that it was my first time. u never know u might too! |
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| Author: | Zelda [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 3:25 pm ] |
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stop masturbating. really. if you stop you'll be as horny as fuck, then you wont care |
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| Author: | The Grinder [ Wed Mar 28, 2012 3:24 am ] |
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Hmm... I dont know if Ill be able to tell her about my experience unless it is right before the act. Do you think that will still be ok? I do believe we both love each other. We may never be in a situation with anyone else exactly the same, that's for sure. All of this advice seems really good. I like the stop masturbating. I think I might actually try that. |
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