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Author:  Elk71 [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 6:16 pm ]
Post subject:  I'm not the relatinship type / what to do in a relationship?
Let me illustrate,

for tactical reasons I may soon enter a formal relationship with a girl.. The thing is , I don't know how to behave in a formal relationship.. so far we'd go binge drinking and screw around a bit.. By entering a formal relationship, obviously I will have to see her more, talk to her more etc.. And I don't feel like it.. I'm imagining it like this.. I have a fucking bad day and suddenly I realized I haven't talked with her in 3 days.. Then I have to force myself into calling her and be like "hm..yeah..so, whats up ? bla bla.. ok cya".. God... I don't talk to my brother for months.. geez.. I am self sufficient when it comes to my social needs (talking etc.). To sum it up, how do you make a dull and boring relationship into one of those move-like happy cheerful romantic ones ? :roll:

I think this fits into the Relationship sub-forum.. thanks
Author:  goodnamesaretaken [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 9:04 pm ]
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Who says you have to change in a relationship? When you enter a relationship you may have to hang out with her more, but you as a person shouldn't change at all. It's the mistake we all see over and over, guys enter a relationship and then soon they are beta. But you seem like you won't let that happen, this is good. Just be chill and be yourself, the only rule you really follow is don't cheat on her.
Author:  Elk71 [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:11 am ]
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Quote:
Who says you have to change in a relationship? When you enter a relationship you may have to hang out with her more, but you as a person shouldn't change at all. It's the mistake we all see over and over, guys enter a relationship and then soon they are beta. But you seem like you won't let that happen, this is good. Just be chill and be yourself, the only rule you really follow is don't cheat on her.
I wont change myself and I don't intended to cheat. I consider myself to be chivalrous.. not in a needy way ofc. However, I simply want to have her attached to me without having a feeling that its just obligation.. hm.. I guess I will have to make her fall in love in me, desire me ...
Author:  jmatla [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 5:57 pm ]
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Hey bro!

I totally understand you! Im the exact same but with the relationship! Sometimes i dont want to text her, or call her. When you feel like this just dont do it! If the girl like/loves your enough she wont care!
Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 1:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm not the relatinship type / what to do in a relationship?
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To sum it up, how do you make a dull and boring relationship into one of those move-like happy cheerful romantic ones ? :roll:

I think this fits into the Relationship sub-forum.. thanks


Read this thread ("This is the reason you suck at relationships!"): this-is-the-reason-you-suck-at-realtion ... highlight=

The whole thread is good, but I'm linking it specifically because I wrote a big post with some pointers, which you may find useful.

-Wolf
Author:  Elk71 [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 10:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm not the relatinship type / what to do in a relationship?
Quote:
Quote:
To sum it up, how do you make a dull and boring relationship into one of those move-like happy cheerful romantic ones ? :roll:

I think this fits into the Relationship sub-forum.. thanks


Read this thread ("This is the reason you suck at relationships!"): this-is-the-reason-you-suck-at-realtion ... highlight=

The whole thread is good, but I'm linking it specifically because I wrote a big post with some pointers, which you may find useful.

-Wolf


helpful info, thanks
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