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| Author: | joeyjoe42 [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 1:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | how does a serious guy become more playful? |
In a relationship, tips on teasing, cocky funny whens the best time and what kind of things can you do or say to be playful. With your girlfriend or all girls for that matter? |
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| Author: | goodnamesaretaken [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 9:01 pm ] |
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Definitely do it for all girls. It's good practice and it keeps you from over-committing to any one girl. When I say over-committing I mean you being beta-ized in a relationship. You can be in a relationship and still be cocky/funny with other girls, but don't try to overdo it, you will come off as a douchebag. Mild doses only. |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 2:57 am ] |
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Look for signs that your relationship is balanced, and warnings that it is too lopsided in one way. For example: When you say something nice, it should MEAN something to her. She should never be desensitized to your affections nor should she ever feel the impulse to toss away a compliment from you. When you neg her, it should serve its function to increase attraction. After a certain point, she'll be too butt hurt and it will do the opposite. You want a girl to QUALIFY herself to you, not feel so rejected that she avoids you all together. When balancing out attraction and rapport in a relationship; always lean towards attraction. The reason is simple. A girl in love with you who feels rejected is much easier to win over than a girl who is NOT in love with you, but feels accepted. Affection from a position bellow is supplication. Affection from a position above is charming. A compliment from someone she respects will BOOST her self-esteem. A compliment from someone she does not respect will bounce off her solipsism. |
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| Author: | snillaheart [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 8:50 am ] |
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seriously. study funny people. humor is a view point of the world. its like a mindset, you have to cultivate it. since not many people are generally funny, you have to learn to see things differently from other people. its something you bring to every single social interaction weather itd be with guys or girls there are different kinds of humor, counter intuitive, misinterpretation and misleading, creative and imaginary etc. im really into math and science cause i have a logical mind and always took things way too seriously, my first step to learning humor was doing the complete opposite of that, not taking things too seriously...hb: how old are you? you: 89 i had lots of plastic surgery can you tell? when you internalize humor you begin to see opportunities to be funny you can tease your gf about literally anything just be silly when you do it play roles n shit and keep on practicing |
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| Author: | danger42 [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 1:53 pm ] |
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Quote: hb: how old are you? you: 89 i had lots of plastic surgery can you tell? when you internalize humor you begin to see opportunities to be funny you can tease your gf about literally anything just be silly when you do it play roles n shit and keep on practicing
This is a classic example of DAT (Discrepancy Arousal Theory): the idea that providing an unexpected answer to a typical question causes her brain to have to shift gears to understand what you're saying, and gives her a slight arousal.Other examples: HB: "So, what do you do for a living?" Me: "Breathe, eat, poop, sleep. You?" HB: "LOL" |
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