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Author:  Decessum [ Sun Feb 12, 2012 11:47 pm ]
Post subject:  She's very popular

I'm having a bit of an issue here, I started dating a girl a while ago, and she has oficially become my girlfriend. Now, I've know her for a while, but we just recently became a couple.
Here's the thing, I try to avoid, but I can't. She's a veery popular girl: she's a singer, model, actress, etc.. etc..
So she has like a lot of "fans" most of them which are male, and I sometimes joke about them, even make fun of them when she shows me her facebook messages where they are hitting on her.
To make it short, she has a lot of male acquaintances and friends that want her, and are constantly hitting on her. I've had girls like this before, but not this much, and I tend to have problems stayin confident, although I never make her known of my insecurity I feel it a lot sometimes, others I don't so much.
How can you deal with this? How can I try to stay confident for myself?

Author:  FCgame [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 11:59 am ]
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Confidence is something that comes from you, nobody can give you that. It's all about getting into the right mental state, and you can apply that to everything.

here you have a video of the things that I use to go out sarging. I know this is not your case but the idea is the same, sometimes you can use external factors to boost your confidence. Hope you understand what I mean.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-WCQTlH ... XvDO5SHQKM


But never forget something, she's with you. She could have dated all these other guys but she's WITH YOU. Don't project your insecurities

Author:  Calamity [ Sun Feb 19, 2012 7:15 pm ]
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I have a similar deal to this, like the last guy said.
Just gotta think she picked me over them so I must be doing something right!

And try to keep her interested with new things otherwise she may have other options

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