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| Author: | swarly [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 2:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | escalation help! |
apparently i come across as needy everytime i try escalating because i am always the one pushing forward...i thought that was a good thing but i guess i did it wrong. ive only been able to get to second base she says "we will escalate when i say we will escalate" i know thats horrible!! how can i regain control? (btw in everything else besides sex, shes not bossy like that - im always the one making the decisions...) |
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| Author: | snillaheart [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 4:06 am ] |
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ya its important to notice when girls become uncomfortable with escalation, if i were you id slow down the escalation, just build more comfort and maintain high value maybe introduce more steps in your escalation so she accepts it more |
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| Author: | swarly [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 12:09 pm ] |
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Quote: maybe introduce more steps in your escalation so she accepts it more
like what?
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| Author: | Lips_and_Hips [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 4:07 pm ] |
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Quote: she says "we will escalate when i say we will escalate" i know thats horrible!!
Wow, that is horrible - sounds like you have a bossy one! But it is also quite obvious to me that she is not 100% comfortable with you. You need to make sure she is comfortable and I believe you should slow down the escalation a bit and feel her vibes regarding her level of comfort. Do not try and force anything, because you won't get anywhere. how can i regain control? The way my ex got me was by slowly escalating kino and therefore building sexual tension. He kept me at arm's length and then just when I couldn't take it anymore, he made his move. We had a four year relationship following that. |
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