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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 12:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is there a "The Game" for relationships? |
Since reading "The Game", watching TMM seminars and watching liturally all PUA material I've gone from getting no girls to getting any girls I want. In the last 2 years i've slept with loads of girls and keep trying relationships but just never seem to make them live more than a few weeks. At the start im fun, i turn girls on, flirt, push thier buttons...after that im nothing... nothing but a loser... I am too nice. Far too nice, and im pretty sure that is the reason why i lose them. Is there any material to help me out with this? |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 12:27 am ] |
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if not, shall we write one here right now and put it together??? |
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| Author: | happilyforever [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 12:48 am ] |
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"The Game" is designed to get you the girl, not keep her. You guys are in PUA training to build your esteem, get laid, and set the tone for future relationships. A relationship is really no place for games... I also think it's impossible to be "too" nice to someone. Remember being nice and putting up with someone's bullshit are entirely different things. If you find that you keep failing, reevaluate what it is you are looking for in a girl. Perhaps you are just chasing the wrong tail. G'luck! |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 1:04 am ] |
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well the girl i have just been in a relationship is... Such a nice girl, shes sweet, shes pretty, everything is awesome. I was nice to her, I did most of the chasing as shes 0% suggestive, and we got on so well!!! Sex was awesome, going out was awesome. Then 3 weeks ago she went out, got drunk, some guy kissed her "it just happened" and then he walked her home and asked to use the toilet and it just happened again.... She felt really bad, and walked away from me without telling me everything as she knew it was too far gone. But still.... A lot of people on this forum say that she had no respect for me obviosuly that night. I just feel as though I should be making her chase me, or maybe not be so nice so she doesn't take it for granted. U know the game is about getting girls etc... I feel as though I need help keeping them as all girls im nice to, or as soon as i become the slightest bit insecure like in the passed, instead of reassuring me they cheat one me -_- |
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| Author: | Wolfwoodd [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 1:42 am ] |
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Well, nothing is going to be quite as engaging as the Game, but I liked this book by JosephWentSouth, Franco and some other guy (all longtime members of the community), Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man. You can buy a hard copy here: http://realmodernman.com/femalepsychology/ Or read it free on Scribd, courtesy of the authors: http://www.scribd.com/doc/28849140/Prac ... ctical-Man It's got a lot of good stuff in it. Disclaimer: I have no association with the authors. I don't usually promote PUA products, but it IS available for free, legally, on the internet so I'm going to make an exception for this one because it's pretty fantastic. -Wolf |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 1:40 pm ] |
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cool, thanks man il check it out. just trying to get some more materials so i can bust a session out while im down lol |
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| Author: | Thedutchone [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 5:13 pm ] |
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Imo the Game usually works with people that arn't to serious about relationships. Usually it also works with people with a low(er) IQ who just are a bit desperate for attention (so called attention-whores). Try meeting a girl outside a bar/club/pub and see where that brings you. |
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| Author: | PUA-Paris [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:56 am ] |
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Train your girlfriend by Matt Huston is really good, check it out! |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 2:52 am ] |
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wow, wolfman, im on page 80 of this book : Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man. I'm starting to think that my girl friend cheated on me because she saw me as a "lover" at first who turned into a "provider", even though she is still sexually attracted to me she seeked that thrill rather than security as she was young and naive. |
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| Author: | Wolfwoodd [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 3:16 am ] |
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Quote: wow, wolfman, im on page 80 of this book : Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man.
+1, I'm glad you like the book.
I'm starting to think that my girl friend cheated on me because she saw me as a "lover" at first who turned into a "provider", even though she is still sexually attracted to me she seeked that thrill rather than security as she was young and naive. |
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| Author: | MagicCaveman [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 3:22 am ] |
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Then again, I turned her on so much. I don't know whether to believe this or not. She said everything was perfect. She went out on anti-biotics and got drunk. Then this guy came onto her, some macho dude. She was saying to me ages ago that she gets turned on when I take control of her so she is powerless, maybe she felt this with him? And it was a fantasy, even though i did it all the time. I don't know. Fucking slut. I believe I gave her the best sex shes ever had, i would be fucking her and her all over body orgasm would fly me into the air! |
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| Author: | rakeal [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 5:49 am ] |
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ya I don't get women at all. Some tell me they love me, others say I am perfect, go on about me to their friends. They have this look to them like they've never been so happy in their lives, they tell me I am amazing in bed blah blah blah... three days later and they are off with another guy, like it never happened. If I ignore them and play it cool they come back but only for a while. I have trouble keeping women for more than a few weeks. Sometimes I know it's my fault, other times I am just plain confused. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 7:42 am ] |
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heres the thing man, you want good relationships, you have to be yourself from the start, if you have to fake a personality to get the girl, it was not meant to be in the long run (unless you want to be a fake tryhard actor/manipulator for your whole life), further more, you are pursueing young girls, for the most part girls in the 18-24 year old range that are even remotely physically attractive have guys trying to get with them left and right, you have to take into account that most of them want to not be viewed as sluts so they hookup into ''relationships'' but they don't usually last long and cheating is often a factor (they are just like guys they want to just have sex with guys they find attractive), sure some do stay completely monogomous but if you are going for party girls that hookup with guys at parties or go clubbing on the regular and that is where you met her, chances are she is interested in the party scene more then a serious monogomous relationship, if you could go out and get brand new attractive pussy every day you went out with little to no effort would you want to hook up and stay faithful to one girl? when you know you could probably cheat on her and she would still want to take you back cause she needs you anyways? and you saying you can get almost any girl you want is not shown with your actions and words in your previous posts, your neediness is evident and does not reflect someone who has alot of attractive female options, you should be out slutting about like a man slut and if that is not your thing stop going for the female ying to that yang you are young, stop taking relationships so seriously at this point, if you want something serious pursue a girl that is either 1)displaying a need for you or 2)is more mature and experienced often times girls losing interest is just a lack of action on the guys part in my opinion, they want to get swept off their feet and seduced, and a guy fails to take action cause he is afraid of what the girl will think of him, somehow thinking that being respectful and waiting for the girl to escalate will somehow make the girl like him more, when in reality if the guy would just go for it, the girl would be more likely to sleep with him then if he waited, and if you never go for it girls will just move onto guys that actually take that action, it is not that hard in reality, just takes a bit of courage and some effort with an understanding that some girls will be up for it, some won't, don't be butthurt about the girls that give you a no, just move on and find girls that say yes, when you are hanging out make it happen, or it simply wont happen (or it will but the circumstances will be dependant on external factors and will be more rare then if you made it happen) further more learning social skills does not mean that just because people find you more likable and you see better responses/recieve more validation, does not mean that everyone that likes you is attracted to you, you can get tons of girls to talk/flirt with you that have no intention of sleeping with you, the only way to find out is to actually try to sleep with them, and some girls no matter how much game you have will simply just not find you attractive and it is not the personality that is lacking for them |
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