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Author:  whysoskinny [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 6:03 am ]
Post subject:  Do You Ignore Your Girlfriend To Gain Her Interest?
Go back to the original book the Game and all the PUA's of Gamber, Lyons, Sinn, Xuma and Style. "To keep your girlfriend you have to be willing to loose her"...

Is it right, or better put, does it work to ignore your girlfriend to get her interested and thinking about you?

:arrow: When does it work best?
:arrow: Does it continually work or will the girl pick up on it after the first time?

I am dating this christian girl, would never cheat and I trust her 100%. Sometimes I ignore her texts on purpose for a long period of time because she is incapable of saying anything sweet and admitting things to me, basically he can't open up. I know I sound like the devil, but after I (who normally is Alpha), go out of my way to do this for her I expect it to be reciprocated.

Do you agree
Author:  FCgame [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 4:10 pm ]
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Forget about the PUA material you already have a girlfriend. Take care of her, if there is something you don't like then talk to her but don't try this pua thing.
Author:  Mr.Bojangles [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:25 pm ]
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I think flat out ignoring your girlfriend will get you dumped. A little push/pull is good but don't flat out ignore her!
Author:  happilyforever [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:49 pm ]
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Do you agree


No. If you have to make the girl you are with jump through hoops to gain (and keep?) her interest, then you should not be with her anyways.
Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 8:02 pm ]
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"To keep your girlfriend you have to be willing to loose her"

You are confused about "relationship game". The quote and what you are describing and the rest of your post are fairly unrelated. The quote is meant to explain that you shouldn't cave to betaization, ultimatums, and shit tests. You need to stay strong even if it risks the relationship. It's the Alpha way to deal with drama.. and it will raise your value in the eyes of women.

The whole "ignoring her" thing is completely missing the point. The idea is to have a social life apart from your girlfriend. Be active, go out and meet new people and have hobbies. The end result is that occasionally you are too busy to answer the phone or return your girlfriend's text messages. Subconsciously, this shows a girl that you have options and that if she behaves badly enough, then you will dump her because you have better things to do. That's a good thing. Sure, ignoring her may still accomplish this, but it's best just to have an active social life.


-Wolf
Author:  ikkarly [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 9:45 pm ]
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I know from experience, it does work.

taking a long time to reply to a text works.
if youre watching tv and she says something ignore. If she repeats, then repond.


My ex. was all about game and he would ignore me sometimes. I noticed what he was doing but it still made me want his attention more.
Author:  Hakuna [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 12:24 am ]
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Wolfwood is right. But at the same time, consciously ignoring your girlfriend DOES accomplish the same thing, albeit in a less natural way. It's essentially the difference between external and internal game, ignoring her on purpose synthetically mimics how an ambitious man with alternative prioties would treat his relationship.

This is what I suggest you take out of all this advice: Ideally start cultivating your internal game and pursuing your greater passions in life so that you unknowingly become less needy and less available. A girl does not want to be at the center of your life, she wants world domination to be the center of your life, with her supporting you all the way. However, keep in mind that spontaneously going no-contact is the EASIEST, if not the best, way to quickly calibrate attraction if you sense your relationship cascading a bit towards the doldrums.

As for not playing games, to some extent this advice is true. You shouldnt over-analyze your relationship or OVERTLY communicate your attempts at using game. But you cannot escape the reality of "Playing games" in a relationship, insofar as social dynamics is ubiquitous. It doesnt matter if you ignore them or consciously try and regulate them; games, power struggles, shit tests, and fights are inevitable aspects of not only every relationship, but every form of seduction.
Author:  Txacoli [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 12:43 am ]
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I (who normally is Alpha),
I think this whole alpha thing has you thinking in the wrong direction. Leave the alpha concept alone, I noticed you're obsessed with it. People here tend to abuse the term and cause a lot of confusion. It's not alpha to ignore your girlfriend on purpose and it's not alpha to act like you're not phased by anything in this world. It's "opossum" alpha. Anyways, don't worry so much about looking "alpha", just be happy you have so much going for you in life and enjoy!
Author:  nashnewbie [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 11:25 pm ]
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this sounds so stupid.
Author:  goodnamesaretaken [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 11:58 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
I (who normally is Alpha),
I think this whole alpha thing has you thinking in the wrong direction. Leave the alpha concept alone, I noticed you're obsessed with it. People here tend to abuse the term and cause a lot of confusion. It's not alpha to ignore your girlfriend on purpose and it's not alpha to act like you're not phased by anything in this world. It's "opossum" alpha. Anyways, don't worry so much about looking "alpha", just be happy you have so much going for you in life and enjoy!
I agree 100%
Author:  joeyjoe42 [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 11:15 am ]
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yer theres not alot i can say here that hasn't already been said but try not to be a control freak on your girlfriend and her emotions for you, if you really like this girl then playing too many games will just fcuk her up for you and 1. you'll lose attraction becuase it all feels mechanical and 2. she will feel massively insecure and on edge about your opinion of her and that isn't any way to have a happy realntionship!
So chill out and enjoy her company does but don't be openly more interested in her at the start than she is of you and don't take any of her shit and you should be fine!
Author:  whysoskinny [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 1:16 am ]
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" keep in mind that spontaneously going no-contact is the EASIEST, if not the best, way to quickly calibrate attraction if you sense your relationship cascading a bit towards the doldrums. "

How so?
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