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| Author: | Kuja [ Sat Jan 21, 2012 12:45 am ] |
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Right. I admit, I am shit at conversation for the most part. The reason is I am very talented in that I draw, play multiple musical instruments, read books on psychology and philosophy, and despise watching tv for the most part. In other words, I spend alot of time in my own head and not in the world around me. That's not to say I'm an introvert. I have no fear talking onfront of crowds, I'm definetly not shy. I'm just very sharp and a straight to the point type of guy. I think quick and fast so if someone dwells on something, socially, in conversation, usually it irritates me or makes me restless because I get bored so easily. That brings me to my problem... THE PROBLEM I get bored so easily when I'm in conversation with most people. Some days I try to make an effort and for that day I will have "normal" conversations with everyone I see in that day, but that's me really trying to be enthusiastic. That only lasts a day and I'm back to being bored by MOST people. How do I shut down my over analysing brain so I can just have normal conversations? Most people just bore me and most wouldn't be in to the things I'm in to and that's all I would really have to talk about! The sad thing is I have bucket loads of charisma and that draws and attracts people to me and I guess they get a bit of buyers remorse after a while when they find out I'm shit at conversation. This is in relationship section because it's affecting a relationship. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:07 am ] |
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Im somewhat the same as you to be honest but this problem doesnt manifest itself in relationships so im not sure you are finding suitable partners. As far as it hurting your game by being bored of banal vacuous prattle, and an intolerance for mundane minutia, the best thing you can do is get some routines and story telling together so you can go on "auto-pilot" now you can be thinking of your next move while demonstrating DHV. Barring that I find that alcohol helps a lot with fighting boredom with woman |
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