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Author:  Teknine [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 7:34 pm ]
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Have not been in a relationship (i.e. had a girl I call a girlfriend) in like 2+ yrs.

My girl and I agreed to be bf/gf a month ago. Before that, I had this girl texting me regularly 'when can I see you'? That dynamic went away after that.

We normally spend the weekend together. Although sometimes I want to, I never ever ask her to do anything during the week - we both have jobs/careers and I don't want to seem needy. And I have some shit going on.

Somehow, I get the feeling even with this amount of time that I'm making her feel too in control. Or I'm too available. She has started including me in events where I meet/hang out with her friends. Her personality changes in social situations - it's still new to us.

A month into an exclusive thing, how should I proceed? I am terrible at this right now, guys. I want to maintain that alluring edge I had when I was dating this chick.
Author:  papichulo818 [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 7:49 pm ]
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Stop being so available. Next question.
Author:  Kuja [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:38 pm ]
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Stop being so available. Next question.
+1
Author:  Richard Pryor [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:04 pm ]
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Tell me, Teknine, how is sex with this woman? Do you call her a whore when you fuck her? Do you lick her asshole? Does she come when u guys fuck? Do you come all over her? Do you choke her a little? Grab her by her hair? Tell her that her pussy belongs to you?

What do you mean by "her personality changes" when you go out with her friends?
Author:  Teknine [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:18 pm ]
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Yeah I totally hear the stop being so available advice - trust me it's not lost on me and is true. However, this chick has a major insecurity streak that has made me tone down my gamey side. Maybe I should tone it up. She always beats me to the punch in terms of emails, texts, any communication. Her social life is many times more active than mine - I can't really hide that, but I keep busy, have my own shit going on.

Pryor - Sex with this girl is the best I've had in my life. She says how amazing it is constantly. I do grab her/hold her down. I usually have to go down on her to make her cum - that's a bit frustrating, and I have thought of trying to learn some new stuff. No ass licking has occurred just yet. I'm curious how she'd respond to that.

I'm exaggerating a little - her personality is just more reserved, less all over me when people are around.
Author:  General Lamb [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:26 pm ]
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Every weekend is a bit routiney, might be an idea to mix it up a bit. Be busy one weekend and hang out during the week instead, or skip a weekend altogether.

However, I just typed that without fully taking in what you'd said.

She's including you in situations involving her friends and you are also "official" as such. Surely this isn't a bad sign. It would be worse if she were keeping you and her friends totally separate. When I've played girls in the past I did this, when girls have played me in the past they did this. It is GOOD that you meet her friends.

Now, obviously she is going to behave differently when she's around her friends, wouldn't you? They key thing here is to seize such events as opportunities to demonstrate that you are un-needy.
Author:  zige [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 10:26 pm ]
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+1 for breaking the routine.

My rule was to date a girl on the weeknights. Weekends are everyone's fun, free time, time for you to live your life, not hers.

A good weeknight date sends a good vibe, brightens up her work-week etc.. Especially if you can have good sex on a weeknight. Then she'll think about last night at work, which is always good.
Author:  Teknine [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 10:51 pm ]
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Ok I'm feelin the breakin routine.

Thing I run up against is this chick reverses it- she has like 2 events a night sometimes every single night, mon-fri. Classes, social shit, it's insane. She invites me to some, but it's mental.

So the weekend is the go-to usually.

But breaking it sounds right. Thanks for your insights.
Author:  Kuja [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 12:08 am ]
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+1 for it's good to meet her friends.

Now. From my field testing, when you meet her friends, you want the frame of mind that you are the most social person in the group. Chat to people, be genuinely interested in them. Ask her to introduce you. If you see another guy who seems to be the most social person in her group, ask her to introduce you to him and have the frame of mind that you are more social than him. But form a mutual respect. Don't overdo it to a point that it looks like you're interviewing them or just being really social because you want to impress them and in turn impressing your girlfriend.

Kissing and all over each other is for you and her 1 on 1. When out with her friends do not do this. Hell, even if she starts to do it you should throw her hand off you (in a playful way) whilst saying "hey we're out with your friends, lets be social and tone it down" or however you would speak. This will make her like you more. Sure you can kiss her or give her a hug or something but don't you dare stick your tongue in her throat. That would be over doing it. I think you get the picture.

PS. Don't forget to lick that ass and cum in her face and tell her her pussy belongs to you.
Author:  Richard Pryor [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 1:33 am ]
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PS. Don't forget to lick that ass and cum in her face and tell her her pussy belongs to you.
+1
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