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that's not enough information to even offer an opinion on whether its good or bad. We don't know what she did, or what she was like, or why you did it.

And in any case, those terms are relative. Good according to whom? Bad by what standard? The only person whose judgment in THAT area is relevant to you is your own. If you want to straighten out you head and get your mixed feelings sorted out, then you have to process your memories, discover for yourself whats good or bad in the past, and project into the future what things would have been like.

Obviously, there were problems that were significant enough to cause you to break up with her. How miserable would you be in a year if you were still dealing with those problems, and they kept getting worse and worse because you didn't do anything to stop them? How much worse would it be in 5 years? What if you spent your ENTIRE life under that kind of duress?

You have your whole future ahead of you now, to forge in whatever way you choose. You can spend it moping about the choices you made, or you can learn from your mistakes and do better in your future.

Its all up to you.

kay listen buddy ill give you a little idea of everything

We went out for 5 months.. I rlly loved her and shes still in love thats 100% sure
But thing is I have trust issues..
If you saw the movie > Raging Bull < well I feel exactly like him
I just cant trust her so I decide to break up so my pain will end up
even if I still like her
soo I broke up face to face I did it rlly well
she cried alot and txted me alot after that
but now shes trying to make me jealous and its rlly pissin me off
(btw we dont talk to each other anymore)
should I try to make her jealous or something?
thanks for the help btw

Author:	school25 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 4:26 am ]
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So yeah I dumped my girl friend and now im rlly confused if was a good or bad idea dunno wat to do...

Author:	LordCaine [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 4:33 am ]
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that's not enough information to even offer an opinion on whether its good or bad. We don't know what she did, or what she was like, or why you did it. And in any case, those terms are relative. Good according to whom? Bad by what standard? The only person whose judgment in THAT area is relevant to you is your own. If you want to straighten out you head and get your mixed feelings sorted out, then you have to process your memories, discover for yourself whats good or bad in the past, and project into the future what things would have been like. Obviously, there were problems that were significant enough to cause you to break up with her. How miserable would you be in a year if you were still dealing with those problems, and they kept getting worse and worse because you didn't do anything to stop them? How much worse would it be in 5 years? What if you spent your ENTIRE life under that kind of duress? You have your whole future ahead of you now, to forge in whatever way you choose. You can spend it moping about the choices you made, or you can learn from your mistakes and do better in your future. Its all up to you.

Author:	school25 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 4:43 am ]
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Quote: that's not enough information to even offer an opinion on whether its good or bad. We don't know what she did, or what she was like, or why you did it. And in any case, those terms are relative. Good according to whom? Bad by what standard? The only person whose judgment in THAT area is relevant to you is your own. If you want to straighten out you head and get your mixed feelings sorted out, then you have to process your memories, discover for yourself whats good or bad in the past, and project into the future what things would have been like. Obviously, there were problems that were significant enough to cause you to break up with her. How miserable would you be in a year if you were still dealing with those problems, and they kept getting worse and worse because you didn't do anything to stop them? How much worse would it be in 5 years? What if you spent your ENTIRE life under that kind of duress? You have your whole future ahead of you now, to forge in whatever way you choose. You can spend it moping about the choices you made, or you can learn from your mistakes and do better in your future. Its all up to you. kay listen buddy ill give you a little idea of everything We went out for 5 months.. I rlly loved her and shes still in love thats 100% sure But thing is I have trust issues.. If you saw the movie > Raging Bull < well I feel exactly like him I just cant trust her so I decide to break up so my pain will end up even if I still like her soo I broke up face to face I did it rlly well she cried alot and txted me alot after that but now shes trying to make me jealous and its rlly pissin me off (btw we dont talk to each other anymore) should I try to make her jealous or something? thanks for the help btw

Author:	LordCaine [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 5:00 am ]
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Quote: kay listen buddy ill give you a little idea of everything We went out for 5 months.. I rlly loved her and shes still in love thats 100% sure But thing is I have trust issues.. If you saw the movie > Raging Bull < well I feel exactly like him I just cant trust her so I decide to break up so my pain will end up even if I still like her soo I broke up face to face I did it rlly well she cried alot and txted me alot after that but now shes trying to make me jealous and its rlly pissin me off (btw we dont talk to each other anymore) should I try to make her jealous or something? thanks for the help btw Didn't see the movie. But if you have trust issues that are severe enough to end relationships without any other problem being involved, you clearly need to work on that before you have an intimate relationship. I may be slightly biased, but I recommend hypnotherapy. Playing head games is not going to resolve your trust issues, its only going to make them worse.

Author:	Mack 2.0 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 5:27 am ]
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Quote: kay listen buddy ill give you a little idea of everything We went out for 5 months.. I rlly loved her and shes still in love thats 100% sure But thing is I have trust issues.. If you saw the movie > Raging Bull < well I feel exactly like him I just cant trust her so I decide to break up so my pain will end up even if I still like her soo I broke up face to face I did it rlly well she cried alot and txted me alot after that but now shes trying to make me jealous and its rlly pissin me off (btw we dont talk to each other anymore) should I try to make her jealous or something? thanks for the help btw how old are you?

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Author:	snillaheart [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 5:45 am ]
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without trust your relationship naturally will turn into insecurities though why wont you trust her if she "loves" you?

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