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Author:  MynameisFisher [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Help! I had a little "accident" during sex.

It was really strange because nothing like this has ever happened to me altough we've been having sex for quite some time now(5 months+). Last night I felt a momentary, and a bit sharp pain under the back of my cockhead. I pulled out and it was bleeding. Since it was erect, and it's full of veins there it was bleeding surprisingly heavyly, despite the fact that it was just a very small spot where it came from.

Turned out that a small tear has occured on the line that runs through on the back of my penis(called frenulum I think in english). However, as far as I know, these kind of tears occur when that frenulum is too short. And it occurs with a very good probability in that case, and it also hurts like hell. But it didn't hurt after, nor did anything like this happen before.

As for today, it seems that it's almost completely healed. I have a little inconvinient feeling if I touch that part, where the scar is, but that's all. Could this affect my sexual life later? Should I worry about this? Of course I will restrain from sex for a few days now because I don't want the scar to break open, and we will start in positions where it is highly unlikely that the frenulum would be overdrawn... And I also wash it there with great caution because I don't want it to get any infections either.

Author:  Richard Pryor [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 6:02 pm ]
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Dude, you need to go to a doctor and ask him these questions. It's your dick. This is serious business. Don't fuck or jerk off until you see a dr.

Author:  MynameisFisher [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 6:33 pm ]
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I'm not seeing that douchebag again. Last time there was a little bend on my testicle. I could feel it. And not just did he take it lightly he was a douchebag all in all. Didn't give me any respect and the whole thing was like "Alright just let's get this over with and go fuck yourself" Lucky me, it disappeared but it could have been serious.

Author:  Snake Doctor [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 6:41 pm ]
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Go to other doctor perhaps?

There are incompetents everywhere, medics are also so find a new one.

Bleeding is something natural so don’t worry, you fucking kidding me? You come for advice on pua forum, on a medical issue?

We all know its fucking terrible going to that type of doctor but hey, its your health you do what you feel confortable, but in few months don’t coming complain because of that you got a serious problem. If there a doctor for that region is for some reason right?

You go see the new doctor now please.

Author:  MynameisFisher [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 6:50 pm ]
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I was posting this here because many people here are getting laid, so I assumed, out of all the people, something similar has happened to someone. And actually bleeding is natural if you have a scar from which it can bleed, it's not like the blood came from my urethra. She was not wet enough, I pushed a little hard, my frenulum is a little short, and so it teared up. I know how what happened exactly, and I know why it happened, the only strange thing for me is that it never happened before, and what I wanted to find out is how long does it take to fully recover before I can have sexy time again without worries.

Oh, and besides. I don't care about going to that kind of doctor. I went asap when I found that bend on my testicles. But since that fag turned out to be a douchebag I'm not going. My erection is completely fine, everything is okay, so unless this happens again, there's no way I'm to go see that idiot.

Author:  Apocalyptica [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 10:26 pm ]
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Nobody will give you any advice here except for you refraining from any sexual action, as well as masturbation.

If things don't get better in some days go see a doc bro

Author:  Jacob292 [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 10:37 pm ]
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As others said, you probably shouldn't be looking for advice on a PUA forum.

Anyhow, something similar happened to a friend of mine. His doctor told him not to touch his penis, and not to have sex for three weeks. If after three weeks, things seemed to go fine, then he could have sex but only with lubricant.

Basically, watch out for like a month.

Author:  Rough Operator [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 2:40 am ]
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You've torn your frenulum. It should heal naturally and you'll be fine in a while but unfortunately it does mean no sex for quite some time (depending on how bad it is.)

I would still go to a doctor though, because in some instances you may require a small operation. I know two people who have done the same thing, but it just healed up fine.

Author:  MynameisFisher [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 8:13 am ]
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Thanks, everyone. It's not so bad, I mean it doesn't hurt like at all. I'll just keep away from sex and be more careful for a while.

Author:  Mr Archer [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 12:05 pm ]
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I have done this before although maybe not as bad as you.

I think it took a week or two to heal up. Depending on the severity you might want to get a doctor to look at it, but I didn't bother with mine as it was a pretty tiny tear. Also haven't noticed any problems or issues since.

Author:  MynameisFisher [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 12:08 pm ]
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Thanks Archer. It's really not that bad, as I said eariler it doesn't hurt. I was expecting something like 1-2 weeks for the heal-up.

Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 1:05 am ]
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first thing, is go jack off in your doctor's mailbox all over his mail.

the asshole.

then go see a proper doctor.

Author:  MrMatt [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 3:47 am ]
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I've been in the same situation and I did not want to see any doctor either.. I did some research on that and it looks like it will heal on his own if you do not have sex or masturbate for a while­. However, the same problem could occur again and you would get to get a surgery. As for myself, I am actually scared of having sex again anytime soon (It happened a couple of weeks ago) so I will just take my time to find the right girl until I have sex again, and HOPE nothing worse happens.

Anyways, you're not alone, bro!

Cheers up

Author:  mcare [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 8:41 am ]
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Quote:
eHis doctor told him to to touch his penis...

Author:  Jacob292 [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 6:30 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
eHis doctor told him to to touch his penis...
Corrected, pretty bad typo.

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