I don't pry into a girl's life but I don't stop her if she wants to tell me something, in the same way that I would want her to listen to me if I was self-disclosing something about my past. The current girl I am seeing has told me a lot. Her bisexuality, threesomes etc. It doesn't bother me and actually makes us closer. It's also a useful gauge of what's on the cards in the bedroom.
You could look at your girls stories and think they are a little overboard. Maybe. Perhaps it is her way of sabotaging the relationship or letting you know what you are in for. But perhaps it is her wanting you to know the real her. Bad bits and all.
I talked to my current girl about my drug problems over the past few years. That's the complete opposite of 'selling' yourself. So why did I do it? Because for better or worse it's a part of me and I wanted her to know what I really was rather than seeing me through rose tinted glasses. If she could hear my bad sides and still wants to be around that's a very positive signal.
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A while later she told me she used to be very sexually active. One night while I was going down on her she told me "I've had girls lick my pussy, but you are much better".
She like's sex. What's wrong with that man? As for the pussy licking comment I got told a similar thing "You lick pussy like a girl, and that's a very good thing". It's a compliment man 