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Author:  mcare [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 7:18 pm ]
Post subject:  "Random" girl messing with my LTR
Ok so I have a small problem. A few weeks ago I contacted this girl that works in high end car dealership. I wanted to sell one of my cars (a bit expensive and hard to sell in this economy).

So I contacted her on facebook (wanting to bypass her company). I am quite likable person so she got a feeling that I'm being more than just friendly. She started to be flirty. I made a mistake and played along hoping that this will speed up the sale of my car. I didn't make any promises and I told her couple of times that I don't cheat.

I sell my car (to some third person). I didn't want to be a prick and delete her from FB so I just told her that I don't need her to do any work for me, we chated a little and said goodby.

And then things get wierd. She starts liking my profile pics (every single one I had) and comenting on how "cute" I look. I asked her to back of as I'm feeling this crosses the line of our "relationship". I deleted her from FB.

She started calling and texting and even made threats that she'll contact my girlfriend about our "afair" (I'm guessing this means that she plans to make one up).

How the fuck can I get rid of this girl? Sould I be nice to her and try to explain my actions to her (risking that she'll get my intentions wrong again and make it worse)?
Author:  priestmac [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 8:55 pm ]
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Ya dude, you just gotta tell her you didn't mean to come across that way. Alsoif she contacts your girlfriend. All you have to say is she's some crazy chick and the situation. I feel like a girlfriend should trust you enough to know she is crazy
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 9:52 pm ]
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hahaha, you found a real psycho.

i've encountered a few.

just tell your girlfriend.

what do you have to hide?

all you did was "flirt"...right?

or what was it "had a flirty tone" or something like that?

that is hardly a capital offense.

something doesn't add up.
Author:  Hakuna [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 10:08 pm ]
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I know this sounds crazy but, if you're every in a REALLY SCARY SITUATION, do exactly the opposite.

Act SUPER FUCKING BETA and NEEDY. She liked all of your profile pics? Like every single pic she has on facebook and then comment on all of them and tell her she looks like a goddess. She said she'll tell your girlfriend about your "affair?" Tell her you already told your gf, broke up with her, and now you want her to meet your parents and eventually discuss marriage/kids. Stand outside her door at 3 AM with flowers. Bring a huge knife and tell her it's to cut this cake you bought her.

You gotta fight fire with fire man.
Author:  mcare [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 11:54 pm ]
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@Hakuna: LOL. My head just exploded. I will bookmark this advice for possible future needs. But I don't think I can apply it to this situation. If it backfires (even if she looses attraction and just wants to do some damage) I would just give her more "incriminating evidence".

@Mack2.0, priestmac: In the era of Facebook, SPAM, etc. Copy-Paste is a strong weapon :) I have my girlfriends trust but "I would make you scream like crazy if I had the chance" is hard to explain even if "if I had the chance" means "if I were single".
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 2:36 am ]
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that's what i figured.

that's beyond simple flirting.

and it crossed into inappropriate.

with that being said,

i can tell you for sure, that this bitch is nuts.

she is not fatally attracted to you.

she simply likes the idea of having power.

and she is going to exercise it.

trust me.

it's just a matter of time until she finds some way of contacting your girlfriend.

let me also say that in the era of copy/paste.

there is copy/paste + delete/photoshop.

you may also check into just how easy it is to get a "personal protective order" PPO.

it's quite easy.

that would bring the bitch back down to reality REAL MOTHERFUCKIN QUICK.

also, along the point of what hakuna said.

you could always fight fire with fire.

but i don't think that acting like a beta-stalker is the best way.

perhaps doing a little research into what is important to her,

and letting her know just how easily that could be put into jeopardy.

for instance:

have any of her harassing messages/calls occured during her work hours. (fired)

does she have a significant other? (broken up)
Author:  Wal [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 3:16 pm ]
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@Hakuna, that is great, but only if you aren't already in a relationship.

Have you tried just ignoring this altogether? IE do not respond to texts, phone calls, etc. Ever.

Beyond this, I don't think you need to tell your girlfriend anything. Why? This is what copy/paste looks like when "crazy" does it:
Quote:
I lick myself like a cat
But you never said that! :lol:
Author:  mcare [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 5:24 pm ]
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@Wal: That's a bad example. I say this all the time. But I get your point :) Yes I started ignoring her after the first call. I'll stick with this for now.

@Mack2.0:
I know it's not the fatal attraction. It was more then obvious that it's about control. I'm sexy as hell tho so it took me a while to rule out fatal attraction :lol: j/k

Anyway like I said. I made a mistake. I tought we all knew what I ment by "flirting". It got out of control :D


The reason I'm sticking with ignoring her for now is that I know she can contact my GF in a second if she really wanted. So it's not like she's trying to get to her and can't. She's just talking bullshit for now.
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