PUA Forum :: Is it normal to feel like this?

I'm currently in a relationship, been together roughly 2 weeks, though we have a lot of history and I feel trapped. I suppose it's a similar feeling to claustrophobia, I feel like the walls around me are gradually getting closer and closer.

I just feel trapped, I see a hot girl walk past me and I can no longer go up to her and hit on her, if I'm at a party, I can no longer kiss close whoever I want. The girl I'm with goes to the same college as me and ALWAYS wants to hang out with me on my breaks, I'm naturally very flirty so when shes around I can't really be myself and I feel like a lid has been put on what I can do, shes not overally clingy, but, she seems to be clingy enough to make me feel like this.

Suggestions?

Author:	Danzella [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 5:13 pm ]
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I'm currently in a relationship, been together roughly 2 weeks, though we have a lot of history and I feel trapped. I suppose it's a similar feeling to claustrophobia, I feel like the walls around me are gradually getting closer and closer. I just feel trapped, I see a hot girl walk past me and I can no longer go up to her and hit on her, if I'm at a party, I can no longer kiss close whoever I want. The girl I'm with goes to the same college as me and ALWAYS wants to hang out with me on my breaks, I'm naturally very flirty so when shes around I can't really be myself and I feel like a lid has been put on what I can do, shes not overally clingy, but, she seems to be clingy enough to make me feel like this. Suggestions?

Author:	JSmooth [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 9:20 pm ]
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Quote: I'm currently in a relationship, been together roughly 2 weeks, though we have a lot of history and I feel trapped. I suppose it's a similar feeling to claustrophobia, I feel like the walls around me are gradually getting closer and closer. I just feel trapped, I see a hot girl walk past me and I can no longer go up to her and hit on her, if I'm at a party, I can no longer kiss close whoever I want. The girl I'm with goes to the same college as me and ALWAYS wants to hang out with me on my breaks, I'm naturally very flirty so when shes around I can't really be myself and I feel like a lid has been put on what I can do, shes not overally clingy, but, she seems to be clingy enough to make me feel like this. Suggestions? END THE RELATIONSHIP! If you feel "trapped" in the relationship and you said you don't feel you can be yourself then leave the relationship. You flat out said you want to go approach other girls so obviously you're not happy with this girl. End it now and save yourself and her from a bigger let down later. Be honest with her on how you feel and move on. Best of luck!

Author:	Apocalyptica [ Wed Nov 02, 2011 7:05 pm ]
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Very clear mate, you aren't ready at all to be with a girl (or with this girl particularly). If you are having thought you're missing out you should be honest to yourself (and your GF) and be single again. Obviously we all want to be single and have a GF in the same time, but you have to decide what you want. If you feel this girl is satisfying you sexually and emotionally than stick with her. But since you are looking elsewhere, this clearly isn't the case, OR you just prefer to be single at this point in time. This is clearly the case here.

Author:	Danzella [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:15 pm ]
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Thanks guys. I broke up with her earlier on today, I feel much happier now. Time to get back into the game!

Author:	JSmooth [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:15 pm ]
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Glad to hear it! NEXT

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