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Author:  Glowstick [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Hanging out with gfs friends
Honestly I have little to no desire to hang out with my girlfriends guy friends, as I have a notion in my head that they gotta be lame to be trying to hang out with chics they are not banging.

That being said my gf does want me to meet them, any advice on this would be appreciated.
Author:  cedius [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 10:09 pm ]
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Meet them...she is offering to open up to you with those she deems to be friends...not doing so will only make her think that you may not be interested in her or what she finds important.

You'd be surprised how many post on here..."She keeps her friends from me"..."I can't meet them"..."She doesn't want to include me into that part of her life...why".

Take it as a good thing...be open minded and remember, she wants you to meet them, not become friends with them where you'll be meeting their parents and having steak at their pad. I say just give it a shot...if it turns out they are complete dick wads...then you can say, hey, your friends really aren't the kind of group I can see myself hanging with but I do appreciate you allowing me to meet them. Well, if she is someone you may want to make a LTR with, perhaps disregard the last comment…but at least you made the attempt!

Just my thoughts to follow here...but in my experience...when a girl has done something for you...I have always found that they then expect that in return...they introduce you to parents/family...they expect that from you...they introduce you to friends/they expect that in return...etc.

That’s what relationships are about, sharing what you enjoy with that one person. You have free will to do and say what you will but keep in mind, if she finds something truly enjoyable, be cautious as to how you say you don't like it, most always, they will take offense even though they say...it's ok! They're girls!

Hope that helps some...let's see what someone else has to add...
Author:  Glowstick [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 12:17 am ]
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I see what you mean, it is just gonna b difficult to even want to be nice to those kids when in my mind I know they probably wish they could have sex with her (one dude in particular). Because normally i just ignore the fact that the dude texts her like a chic.

I really like your point though and I agree.
Author:  cedius [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 1:44 am ]
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Don't be quick to jump to conclusions...you may be wrong...or, you could be right. :lol:

I have always went in with an expectation and 80% of the time...Im wrong...and my best nights have been going in with no real expectation to begin with.

I hear you though...and you have a point...in her defense, if there was any interest in those dudes from her stand point...you wouldn't be meeting them!

If you choose to meet them, be the bigger person and what ever you do, don't let your inner thoughts about them become apparent...she will see you as insecure and you'll lose major interest in her eyes! Also...if you do and end up hitting it off with them and they are really just friends, you'll have them in your corner...back to the last note...if it goes bad, you'll have them in her ear sayin...sh!t, you can do better than him! I'd keep that in mind before you go.
Author:  idomiralin [ Fri Sep 30, 2011 11:48 am ]
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Go out and meet with them. If they are behaving like kids or you don't like them, she should understand that, because you're not a puppy, that can be manipulated. Give them a chance and see how it goes. For more information about dating and inner-game, visit http://seduceandattract.blogspot.com/.

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