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Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 6:49 pm ]
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Well, I wanted my ex back so I do some things to get her back, but she didn't want to... now she know I slept with some other girls 2 days after she said NO to me... and now after 1 week, she sends me a text message saying that She's glad to say me no to me, because I said I love her but 2 days after that I was fucking other girl..

what should I do? answer o not? if yes, what?

thanks guys!
Author:  Sidnne [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:12 pm ]
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What did you do to try to get her back?
Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:14 pm ]
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What did you do to try to get her back?
acted as an AFC basically... :?
Author:  Sidnne [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:19 pm ]
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Yep. And you pushed her further away.

I told you what to do when you asked before, but you let your desperation get the best of you and you acted while in an irrational state.

At this point, you're kind of screwed. You need to let it go, move on, and chalk this up as a learning experience. LEARN from it so you don't make the same mistakes again.

EDIT: Here is one thing I will say. NEVER listen to a woman's words! Their words mean nothing. Always pay attention to their actions and body language. Right, now her action is that she texted you. At the very least, it's something.

Do not apologize for sleeping with another woman. SHE broke up with you. If she didn't want you to sleep with someone else, then she shouldn't have broken up with you. She is hurt, because she feels like you moved on before she did, no matter how else she tries to justify it. She is trying to repay that hurt by saying hurtful things to you. Don't get caught up in that game. Stand your ground and act like a man.

You can text her back and tell her "You broke up with me, remember? I don't owe you anything. I especially don't owe you faithfulness, because there is nothing to be faithful to anymore. I think we both need some space, so I would appreciate it if you didn't contact me."

Then you go DEFCON No Contact! And you work on not being AFC anymore. You work on being an alpha male. And you work on MOVING ON!
Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:22 pm ]
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Yep. And you pushed her further away.

I told you what to do when you asked before, but you let your desperation get the best of you and you acted while in an irrational state.

At this point, you're kind of screwed. You need to let it go, move on, and chalk this up as a learning experience. LEARN from it so you don't make the same mistakes again.
but why she sends me that text message? she's kinda jelaus.. so maybe she is still interested dont you think??

also, I DID what you said, after that I didn't contact her!
Author:  Sidnne [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:31 pm ]
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You said you tried to get her back and told her you loved her. That's not what I told you to do.

Read my edit on my previous post.
Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:35 pm ]
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You said you tried to get her back and told her you loved her. That's not what I told you to do.

Read my edit on my previous post.
noo, that's was BEFORE I wrote the very first post, then I didn't contact her anymore, for about 2 weeks, and then this...

It happened what you told me, "she will contact you"
Author:  Sidnne [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:47 pm ]
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Then what happened when she contacted you? That's majorly important.
Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:50 pm ]
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Then what happened when she contacted you? That's majorly important.
she send me the text message! that's why I'm doing this thread, to know what should i do next
Author:  Sidnne [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 7:56 pm ]
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Wait, back up.... The text message about her being glad she told you no because you slept with someone else, was the first time she contacted since you went No Contact?
Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:01 pm ]
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Wait, back up.... The text message about her being glad she told you no because you slept with someone else, was the first time she contacted since you went No Contact?
exactly!
Author:  Sidnne [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:06 pm ]
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OK, got ya.

In that case, wait a day or so before responding. Then respond similar to what I said earlier. Remind her that she was the one who broke up with you and tell her that it's not fair for her to suggest that you're not allowed to move on. Ask her to respect your space and privacy. Then go back to No Contact.

If she responds again, ignore it.
Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:10 pm ]
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OK, got ya.

In that case, wait a day or so before responding. Then respond similar to what I said earlier. Remind her that she was the one who broke up with you and tell her that it's not fair for her to suggest that you're not allowed to move on. Ask her to respect your space and privacy. Then go back to No Contact.

If she responds again, ignore it.
ok thank you sidnne6! :)
Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:34 pm ]
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lol, she answered "you're kidding me, you told me you can't think in anybody else, you lied to me, be happy, all get's back in life"

(sorry if i translated this wrong, english is not my first language)

seems like she's jealous... I didn't answered and as you told me I will ignore it :lol:
Author:  newstyle10 [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 10:31 pm ]
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Hey, sorry for posting again, but I have some news.. the sister sent me an email telling me that my ex is very sad....
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