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| Author: | whysoskinny [ Fri Sep 16, 2011 9:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Tough interesting one - short and direct - What you got? |
Need your help on this one, From coming from a guy who was STUCK on oneitis and now has found this new amazing girl, here is the situation: I moved in to University, being a varsity athlete on scholarship and a big deal here, I was a cocky confident guy who received a lot of interest from girls. It did give off a bad image especially since I am very, caring, sensitive, honest, opening to girls I like. The first day I got here I saw this girl ON MY FLOOR (See her every day) who I absolutely fell head over heels for, 1 week ago this is, I said im gonna get her. I got her. Now she had a boyfriend coming into University, they broke up on the 3rd day and since then we have spent everyday together. It has been absolutely amazing, I see her, we kiss when we are alone, we mess around when we are alone, but we take it VERYY SLOW, because she is a caring girl who likes to know the guy before she goes far with him. Even though she wants to go far with me and gets turned on , she stop herself. She is honest with me, her ex boyfriend in my opinion is a looser. I have been playing it very well with her the past two days but I fucked up yesterday. I saw guys checking her out and I realised she can get any guy she wants, I became insecure for some reason, I started asking her so many questions, why do you like me? How is this difference? How am I different? And then it went down hill, I cant really remember what else but I showed a side of me that was insecure and I was just frustrated. It went down hill and she said that she needs time. Here is our convo (her part) "i dunno i guess i just feel like its too soon to be getting into another relationship... like after 7 months i shouldn't be jumping into something after only a few days. but then when we're together things feel so right and you make me happy and so i don't know why it doesn't feel right and i know this doens't feel fast to you but i've always been a really cautious person like i think things out for a while before acting" Later on she wants to chill alone, what do you suggest honestly, because ive been thinking about her all day. Hit me |
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| Author: | whysoskinny [ Fri Sep 16, 2011 10:23 pm ] |
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Guys I need a reply! |
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| Author: | PUA-Paris [ Sat Sep 17, 2011 9:21 am ] |
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I can relate though I never knew asking questions like those was a sign of insecurity until now so I stopped asking questions with my girl and now I just act as if I won't care if I lose her and I'm confident about everything so no need for questions..but yea give her some space dude, it seems to me you're rushing it as well. Don't be insecure, if she wanted another guy, she would have easily left you for someone else. Have a lot of options like her, show that you can get any girl you want as well. Check out "Easiest Way to Save a Dying Relationship" in this section (Relationships) Even though you're not in a relationship with her, these 3 easy steps can still help. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Sat Sep 17, 2011 11:43 am ] |
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i would say this: hey, i know i kind of pushed it with you last time we talked. girls don't usually rattle my frame like this. but i just think you are absolutely amazing. i'm a very confident person. but you and i really hit it off and it kinda freaked me out a bit. i understand you not wanting to rush, and more importantly, i don't want to make you feel rushed. you're a pretty neat chick. hit me up some time. xoxo |
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