i have an extremely limted understanding of NLP, and i am trying to increase this SPAM as i am finding this stuff fascinating.
one thing that i kind of developed by accident, but i have used ever since, is a type of anchoring? i believe.
i realised its power by accident too...
when you're about to seal the deal, and she puts the lights off (isnt that mostly the way?!?!) explain that you want a bit of music on. And then put it on.
QUEEN Greatest Hits.
everybody loves queen, but most importantly; if you fuck her right then your amazing time, and queen in general, will be anchored together.
the first time i did it was with a girl from another town which i occasionally venture into. well a few weeks after i stopped meeting her i was in the same town on a lads night out and no girls involved. towards the end of the night i saw her and she didnt see me, i didnt speak with her because it ended fairly badly when she got upset at me meeting other girls too (this was around the time when i first got interested in the game, so i dont care how 'beta' or afc this sounds!).
We Will Rock You got played and i remembered her when i heard the song (i guess the 'anchor' works both ways?) so after a few minuted i get this text through telling me that she cant stop thinking about me and bla bla bla... THE SONG PULLED A TRIGGER IN HER MIND!!! i didnt know about anchors and so forth at that time, but i did know that this stuff worked, so decided to incorporate it.
i have just watched AFCAdam's incredible 21c presentation from last year and his part about her keeping the DVD reminded me that i havent shared this little nugget with you all!
enjoy!
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