Hey, an anchor is a visual way to bind her attention and thus her emotions/feelings on to you. For example-talking to her, standing over a chair,gesturing with hands, you say something along the lines of-"isn't it great when you have those initial feelings and thoughts when you 1st meet a person (NB;raising 1 hand) and you decide right there and then whether that person is for you,(raising your other hand up before grasping chair and sitting down-thus you 'anchor those pre-suppositions/thoughts onto the chair and then YOU sit on it-thus visually and emotionally tagging yourself!!) that enters your mind".
Please see Ross Jeffries full explanattion on one of his blogs at his site for a fuller understanding...
