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Author:  PUAdave [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:49 pm ]
Post subject:  I need an anchoring idea when I'm playing the guitar/singing
Played an open mic recently & its the 1st time I had played live in years & since studying "game". A couple of girls who are good friends (both have Boy friends) came out to see me for the 1st time. After I got off stage, it was clear they were both looking at me much different with bedroom eyes, out of breath. I could see it had a major effect on them. One of them is pretty sexual open & talking with the open one she said they both were very turned on, even said they were both "wet" which embarrassed the other girl, so it had to be true. She said specifically they were turned on by my voice.
Anyway I need a slick anchor to fire off when needed, not only for other potiental targets but one of these girls is very hot & her relationship probably wont last, got a little crush on her too. Got any idea's because it seems hard to anchor while playing. Anything I can use my voice for in the meantime.
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:25 pm ]
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They said that YOUR VOICE turned them on and made them "wet"...

You could, off stage, continue using your voice the way you do when you
sing to turn them on even more just by talking to them.

Or you could whisper in their ear with your voice that turns them on.

While singing, if you want to anchor something to one girl, you should look
at her when you sing/say one of the lines in your music and wink at her, or
you could point directly at her.

I don't know of any other way that you could anchor stuff while you are in
the middle of a show. Think what rock stars do when they are singing and
see a hottie in the crowd, what do they do... they look at her, wink and even
point to her so she knows that he sees her and is aware that she is there.

This makes the girl even more turned on because the rock star (you) has
noticed her looking at him and he also finds her attractive.

If they were both wet because of you singing, you can offer to play the
hottie you want a private show/song. Ask her to meet you at your place
one night and you will sing her a song "just for her".

Don't worry about the boyfriend, she will tell him she is going somewhere
else in order to come to your house.

She will get turned on and might even jump your bones before you even
finish the song.

If she shows up to your place wearing some sexy clothes that reveal
cleavage or her clothes are real soft and are just brushing over her breasts
making her nipples hard (or if they are hard when she walks in) then you
can bet that you are going to sleep with this girl that night.
Author:  SUB-ZERO [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:26 pm ]
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Maybe you could give her a guitar pick. Tell her "This is my lucky charm for when I hit the stage. I'll give it to you this time but I want it back as it's important to me." or make up some other fluff. Doesn't matter much what you say, If she already turned on by you, it will make her feel special and not "gamed". Felling hot and special at the same time is a great combo. Good luck...
Author:  R.G. [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:55 pm ]
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Maybe you could give her a guitar pick.
Haha nice, condiment anchor; old skool baby. If you're doing this one then elicit a state, create a symbol for that feeling then manipulate the symbol by transferring the energy/symbol into the pick.
Author:  PUAdave [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:24 pm ]
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While singing, if you want to anchor something to one girl, you should look
at her when you sing/say one of the lines in your music and wink at her, or
you could point directly at her.
This is helpful info, although I think winking telegraphs to much interest for my type of game or what I would be comfortable doing on stage. This did make me think of licking my lips a few times while singing as a possible alternative that would be under the radar but also sexual associated a couple things.

Also if there is an attractive girl I want to impress, a sultry stare right at her while singing certain parts might just work & would be acceptable I think because you are performing. Then possibly use those words/look in an approach or perhaps even in some sort of embeded command? Im a novice at NLP but I think we might be onto some good stuff I think!?!?

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They said that YOUR VOICE turned them on and made them "wet"...

You could, off stage, continue using your voice the way you do when you
sing to turn them on even more just by talking to them.
My singing voice isn't really similar to my normal voice IMO. I think if you heard me talk you couldn't really match it with a singing track of mine & I don't see how to blend the 2 in normal conversation. Similar elements but as much as I talk with the friend in a normal tone that would diminish that aspect & effectivness I would think.

Seems like one way now I can come up with might be to say I'm playing again & mention that night, hopefully bring up the memories, anchor it in someway then.
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If they were both wet because of you singing, you can offer to play the
hottie you want a private show/song. Ask her to meet you at your place
one night and you will sing her a song "just for her".
I'm walking a fine line with this this girl which is one reason I am looking for an under the radar approach like NLP. I haven't hit on her once, actually. That is a concious effort & has allowed me to get close to her very quick. I do want to keep building attractions though which finding out that I put her in that state & what did was a great nugget I want to try to use hopefully to the point she makes the move or puts herself in the situation where it would be easy to which she hasn't.

Several reasons for that. One I like hangin with her & she is the best social proof I have when we go out to clubs every week. Having her around has helps my game 10 fold. I don't want to mess that up right now which is why I don't need to make the move. Also she set me up with her friend which I like as well but that has been on & off, so that's working against anything anything with this girl now, plus could wreck the other. Then the boyfriend, she constantly talks him down.
Author:  PUAdave [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:49 pm ]
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Haha nice, condiment anchor; old skool baby. If you're doing this one then elicit a state, create a symbol for that feeling then manipulate the symbol by transferring the energy/symbol into the pick.
Can you suggest a logical routine to achieve that in that setting with a guitar pick? I have watched some RJ seminars & am familar with filters . His routine was like

"did you know feelings have colors, I heard it on the discovery channel. what if the feeling was a ball of color in my hand".

then fractionated with it. He does warn about doing this with objects as he says it can cause stalkers.
Author:  R.G. [ Tue Feb 17, 2009 10:15 pm ]
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Haha nice, condiment anchor; old skool baby. If you're doing this one then elicit a state, create a symbol for that feeling then manipulate the symbol by transferring the energy/symbol into the pick.


Can you suggest a logical routine to achieve that in that setting with a guitar pick?
Sure.

HB's: "We loved the sound of your voice"

Rafiel: "Hey that's cool guys, so how does it make you feel?"

HB's: "Good, like kinda wet inside!"

Rafiel: "Hahahaha you girls are crazy. So I'm curious, when you're wet, what does that really feel like?"

HB's: "I dunnoo...really horny and smootchy I guess."

Rafiel: "Awesome. You know it's weird I was reading a psychology book the other day and it said these feelings have colours - what colour would you give it when you feel so incredibly horny and smootchy?"

HB's: "RED!"

Rafiel: "Easy tiger! Hmm, you're good at this. Ok, bet you won't figure this one. When you get this amazing feeling as if you're wet inside, that makes you feel really horny and smootchy, and it's a red energy, like a shape, what shape is it?

HB's: "A ball."

Rafiel: (Motioning a red ball with hands and paying attention to it to give it life) "That's wicked. You girls know how to party I like this. You know what, if I were to put this red ball of energy, this incredible horny smootchniess you feel that makes you wet, right into your heart (push it into her chest)...and you feel it growing bigger as you inhale..........................and smaller as you exhale...can you feel that great feeling, it's kinda cool huh? (Then try it with the other girl, she will feel left out that you're not doing it to her so she will readily accept). This psychology stuff is funky eh. I'll tell you what, it's even more cool when you imagine this amazing red ball of energy in your heart, and I then touch it, and run it up your shoulder like a paint brush painting on you........and down your arm........and across your wrists........just close your eyes now so you can only feel that incredible feeling........as you look at me (at this point put a finger to your lips to motion a 'shush' to the other girl and wink at her)...and into your hands....now open your eyes, and put this amazing energy into my heart (take her hand and put it onto your heart). Awesome! We can be blood brothers now! With some crazy energy shit! (Repeat for second girl if necessary).

Then, through a similar method, just put the ball into your guitar pick, and tell them that the pick is very important. Handle it with care. When using condiment anchors, it's all about how YOU hold and non-verbally interact with it. Hold it by the tips of your fingers as if it has some lethal power, or in your cupped hands as if it is the most precious diamond. Give it to her with two hands not one. You can miss out the stage where you put the ball into your heart if you want.

You then put the pick in her hand palm up, and close her hand with your other hand slowly and seductively, but firmly. Tell her you'll take it back next time you see her.

I appreciate this may be in a loud and difficult SPAM but you will have to adjust that to your needs. Such NLP methods are not particularly conductive to those SPAM anyway. Hope this helps and use the energy thing responsibly, please.
Author:  The Big Bad Wolf [ Wed Feb 18, 2009 1:48 pm ]
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Good stuff, Gamble.
I just thought I'd reiterate the warning.

Be careful with using the technique Gamble demonstrated here, it's Really powerful.

If you want a term for it it's Symbolic Morphology, Where you first create a symbol for something (a feeling or emotion) then morph or manipulate, change the symbol and thereby also the feeling with which it is associated.


Don't do this with the feeling of Love unless you want a stalker.
And don't place the suggestion that it will keep growing for each time you see eachother. (well you can do that with the feeling of being Turned on and Incredibly Horny, with good results (be careful you don't get raped :lol:))

;)
Be careful out there.
Cheers.
Author:  Swoop [ Mon Feb 23, 2009 9:26 pm ]
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While I agree that they may have been turned on by your voice, I think the REAL reason they were so attracted to you was because of the social proof. One) You had the balls to get up in front of a bunch of strangers and put yourself out there= confidence. Two) You played well, assumingly. Skills. You got a positive reaction from a these strangers which pumps your value in the minds of these girls. Three) Your voice, again skill.

Just thought you should perceive your results from other possible factors than just your voice. If you played the same way for JUST them, you could still get them hot I'm sure. It just gets multiplied on stage.
Author:  PUAdave [ Tue Feb 24, 2009 9:17 pm ]
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I was out eating with both girls as well as a couple other people this weekend who had never seen me play. What's interesting was some song came on the jukebox & I said hey this is a cool song trying to figure out what it was.

One immediatly brought up me playing that night to the other 2 friends that hadn't heard me. Her exact quote was

"He was awesome, he is such a good singer. People we didn't know were coming up after asking him to come back & play"

Couple things were interesting.

One was she was qualifying me to another girl that hadn't seen me. Also like you said, it was obvious the crowd & probably more specifically leading the crowd (leader of men), emoting (through my music), & social proof (pre-selection) did amp up her opinion/attraction. Those are all Mysteries theory's which I think apply as well to that DHV.

It was also obvious when random music was mentioned with her looking at me, that immediatly took her back in her mind to that night & positive feelings supporting NLP principles as well. It seemed to already be anchored in association to me. Could be quite useful if I ever turn on a slow song & mention it.
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