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| Author: | _Manna_ [ Thu Jan 01, 2009 12:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Four forbidden patterns? |
I keep hearing about these forbidden patterns... what are they? You dont have to name them i just want to know why they are forbidden |
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| Author: | Chief [ Thu Jan 01, 2009 12:34 am ] |
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Because they leave people worse off than you found them. |
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| Author: | Grape [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 1:30 am ] |
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Using the 4 patterns are like bringing guns to a knife fight. No one should actually use them unless they really feel that they'll marry and spend the rest of their lives together or they want to do as Chief said and leave them worse. |
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| Author: | _Manna_ [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 7:06 am ] |
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Ah alright, fair enough. |
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| Author: | Jaecp [ Sat Jan 03, 2009 1:39 pm ] |
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So, How, precisely, are these bad? |
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| Author: | The Big Bad Wolf [ Mon Jan 05, 2009 12:41 am ] |
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The short answer; you make use of peoples fears, anxieties, troubles, traumas, etc. for your own benefit and if they do not have these you can create them. The long answer involves the fact that you overpower their own abilities to chose, and make yourself, in our language, their one-itis. (and in most cases, an extreme one at that) Even when they may consciously think they should not even be interested because you have none of the qualities she really likes. Their friends will also notice this, but it's to no avail if they tip her off, as she will be like the wife of the violent drunk husband, who simply states she cannot leave him because she loves him. The Long version may even contain a sad little verse about her losing her friends, her jobs, her sanity, everything she believed was happiness, because there's only happiness with you in her life, and without you she's left like a wreck. A Beautiful architecture leaning, like a deck of cards, on one statue, which was the one who talked her into trusting herself to only this one, and which may, since it is not bound by anything other than her pleas, her hopes, her dreams and her happiness, up and leave whenever it damn well pleases. this is why they're bad. It's a simple question of ethics. and if people do not possess that, they shouldn't be let near the techniques, since it will, in effect, be like walking through the hedge maze of the emotional world with the equivalent of a chainsaw. Which kinda ruins the whole thing for a very long time, wouldn't you say ? It certainly doesn't leave her better than you found her. |
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