Alright, as you all know, I've been a major advocate of NLP and language patterns I have a lot of posts on here. Recently, a friend loaned me his copy of Vin Dicarlo's Pandora's box, because he knew my interest in profiling people. This is not an ad for the program, any profiling will do as long as you gain an understanding of what makes this person tick.
I wasn't getting turned down by women. Now, let me first say, I'm attractive, but, I'm also 256 pounds (and not the muscular 256) and I'm balding and I'm only 25 which means I don't have a huge amount of money. I was getting friendzoned a lot. But here's the thing, I was getting friendzoned using the same techniques I was getting another woman with. One found it arousing, while one found it charming and good-nature but not arousing.
Enter Pandora's Box--I maintain you can get the same profiles from The Art of Seduction, you can learn great profiling techniques from Igor Ledochowski's Hypnotic Profiling program, so, again, this is not advocating Pandora's Box and I didn't pay for the program.
Pretty much, different women are attracted to different things, sometimes in different ways. To take Dicarlo's examples. The Cinderella and The Modern Woman both want men of direction, purpose, and are sexually aggressive. The difference is that a Modern woman sees sex as fun and casual and if she likes you and feels attracted to you, all you have to do is take the lead, and she'll go along. The Cinderella on the other hand sees sex as important, valuable, and meaningful, and she wants to feel connected and feel like you value her and see her value. You have to take action but then have to get her to reciprocate, otherwise she feels as if you're just trying to game her--pretty much, pacing and leading are going to be huge for her... she needs someone that understands her world and accepts it... The Modern Woman doesn't need that in the same way... The hopeless romantic has to have something she can fix in you, a challenge to overcome, if you overcome it too quickly without building emotional investment, she leaves for someone else because the thrill is gone, you'd want to use the Gemini Pattern, or other patterns about duality, and good and bad, and you'd want to talk change... like the Rake Valmont in Dangerous Liaisons, you want to confess your faults, but not know how to fix them and thus using NLP and Language Patterns you can put the onus on her to be the savior.
Understanding this, I've gotten 4 women, now I'll be honest, 1 was a model, 1 was incredibly obese (beautiful face, soft features, but bigger than me) (I really liked what I knew about her sexually and oh my God, for anyone that watches Archer, pretty much like Archer describes Pam in season 3), 2 were 7's to 8's in a month's time, one a week. I've got 3 more dates and I'm still hooking up with the Obese woman and one of the 8's.
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