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| Author: | nic123 [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 9:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | how to make nlp work? |
I study ss 3.0 and read ross books i am been trying this stuff alot and dont see any result does anyone as a clue what can i do worng? |
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| Author: | DeepBluesy [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 10:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make nlp work? |
While I may be chided for this response, I have to say: NLP should NOT be your primary attraction method. It is more a supplement and a personal betterment aid in my opinion. Use it to better yourself or bring out the wonderous side in another. Leave her better than you found her. 
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| Author: | worldrunner [ Tue Jun 18, 2013 1:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make nlp work? |
what have you tried and what exactly is not working? |
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| Author: | alanwak3 [ Tue Jun 18, 2013 9:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make nlp work? |
Meet girl Figure out what she values Paint the picture with your language Anchor it to yourself\throw in commands so she'll think about it later in the future Pull. |
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| Author: | nic123 [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 1:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make nlp work? |
i tryed EMBEDDED COMMANDS from ross book and not get any respond |
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| Author: | worldrunner [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 7:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make nlp work? |
The commands work only if: she is paying full attention to you the topic of conversation has something to do with the commands you want to use you put the emotion you want to transmit in each command Try to talk about the topics that Ross recommends and do not care about the commands and put some emotion in the conversation... |
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| Author: | alanwak3 [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 11:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to make nlp work? |
I disagree with what you guys are saying about embedded commands. In my experience: They work even if the girl isn't paying full attention, although they more often than not get her attention because embedded commands are usually pattern interrupts in and of themselves. The topic of the conversation DOES NOT need to have anything to do with what you are embedding, you can talk about a random subject and embed commands related to whatever emotional state you want. Of course, you can do it directly. If you're trying to embed commands related to deep emotional connection, you can talk about deep emotional connection. {{The Government and Advertising media does this kind of sleight of hand all the time}} Now you do need to have emotion, as worldrunner has said. That's because if you just stand there and talk about emotional arousal in a monotone voice without feeling it yourself, you aren't utilzing state trancefer at all. In other words, you aren't even really cummunicating with her. Also, people don't trust that sort of "detachment" because it's incongruent. It's like being a kid when a tornado is whipping through your neighborhood and your Uncle says "Now look kids, everything is gonna be alright."  Now with that said, saying "got no response" is impossible. Just by the fact you're communicating with someone, you're always getting a response. The art is identifying the response and adjusting it towards your goal. 
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