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| Author: | Goodness_Gracious [ Thu May 16, 2013 11:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New to NLP |
So I just started to learn this NLP stuff and I'm really interested. Can someone break this stuff down for me. What is a Pattern? how is NLP different from other types of Hypnosis? Should I just shoot out techniques randomly or should I take a hypnotherapy class? Has anyone had any success stories using NLP techniques? Any tips? What the first NLLP techie I should learn? |
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| Author: | alanwak3 [ Fri May 17, 2013 7:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to NLP |
Quote: So I just started to learn this NLP stuff and I'm really interested.
"Pattern" is used a lot in NLP, usually in the seduction community it just means an NLP routine; imo don't fuck around with memorzing patterns, but pay attention to the language and themes and emotions they use.Can someone break this stuff down for me. What is a Pattern? how is NLP different from other types of Hypnosis? Should I just shoot out techniques randomly or should I take a hypnotherapy class? Has anyone had any success stories using NLP techniques? Any tips? What the first NLLP techie I should learn? NLP was reverse engineered by examining therapeutic techniques by Virginia Satir (The author of the classic book PEOPLEMAKING) and The Wizard of the Desert himself, Milton H. Erickson. NLP frameworks are present in all types of hypnotism, but not all hypnotism is NLP, if that makes any sense. Find techniques that work for you and you see a use for; ignore the ones you see no use for, but be open to the idea that they'll come up later. Check out a book called Monsters and Magical Sticks, it's must read. |
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| Author: | Goodness_Gracious [ Fri May 17, 2013 4:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to NLP |
[/quote] "Pattern" is used a lot in NLP, usually in the seduction community it just means an NLP routine; imo don't fuck around with memorzing patterns, but pay attention to the language and themes and emotions they use.[/quote] So if Im using a pattern its totally okay to substitute words and certain phrases as long as I focus on emotions and stuff like "anchoring", "reframing", "submodalities |
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| Author: | Altereagle [ Fri May 17, 2013 7:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to NLP |
I am relatively new to NLP as well but have had success with it in the past. The one thing I can say is, NLP works and is extremely powerful. The one thing you have to keep in mind is "intent". As a warning, know this is powerful stuff and must be used with great care because you can seriously fuck up somebody's life. Danny Boyle just released a film called Trance that deals with hypnotism and is a great example of how this could be potentially dangerous, especially when it comes to love. That being said, the second most important thing you have to keep in mind is rapport. You cannot hypnotize somebody to do something they do not want to do on some level. I remember reading a Robertson Davies book in high school that touches this very idea. Just as an example I'll tell you of a previous experience. In high school I took a co-opertaive education/ work placement course and I ran a NLP routine on a female student just so she would feel good. This girl latter associated her feelings of feeling good with me and for like 3 weeks would not stop trying to get my attention. I had no interest in the girl and unfortunately she seemed pretty hurt. |
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| Author: | StinkyApple [ Sun May 19, 2013 7:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to NLP |
Sorry to hijack this thread, but seriously i also need to learn this. I got NO idea where to start. I want to be really good as i find this very interesting, so i want to learn the basics and build my way to top. What should i read first? |
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| Author: | Goodness_Gracious [ Mon May 20, 2013 3:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to NLP |
Yeah bro. Im crazy wanna learn this too. I just picked up a book called "The Ultimate Introduction to NLP." Its good. Richard Bandler tells the techniques in the form of a story. |
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| Author: | alanwak3 [ Mon May 27, 2013 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to NLP |
Quote: Sorry to hijack this thread, but seriously i also need to learn this.
Check out a book called "Monsters and Magical Sticks." It'll set you straight, give you some basics that you can build on, and it's fun and a quick read!
I got NO idea where to start. I want to be really good as i find this very interesting, so i want to learn the basics and build my way to top. What should i read first? |
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