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| Author: | spoon013 [ Sat Dec 01, 2012 3:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | NLP style texting |
I use NLP constantly in PU and real life. It's become a natural part of me. However, I always feel uncomfortable in text situations with girls I want to fuck (different story with purposeful friend zoning) because it's hard to elicit desired emotions aside from slapstick laughs. I think fractionation might work on some level, although I use Dark Rake style fractionation in real life and am not sure how that would play out in a text situation (it's pretty extreme/intense). Another sticking point is how would I anchor these emotions to me or anything else without subtle body language/kino/tonality? I would really like a guru to reply as I believe that if this style is developed, the benefit to the community would be amazing! Any suggestions or discussion from interested individuals is always welcome as well |
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| Author: | jacob600 [ Mon Dec 10, 2012 3:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: NLP style texting |
I do the text the same way I do real life, almost. I like to keep it much lighter over text and make cocky jokes, while I embed commands via capitalization. I don't give crap. We all fractionate via text when we take a while to respond. The key is calibrate and DELAY your responses when you know the state is high. You can also use a keyword like, "Right!" off and on to anchor your state. I could add more but I'm tired.... Keep the thread going and brainstorm some more... j_xuma - yahoo |
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| Author: | DirtyDreams [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: NLP style texting |
1) Be sarcastic, dont fear to lose her 2) Make her imagine (and emotionally feel) things covertly: - Have you ever felt like... - Can you imagine... - You know what it feels like when.. 3) Be funny, answer the opposite what she expects - "What are you doing now?" - Expected: "Nothing much" - Unexpected: "Right this moment Im heading to moon, from there I will continue to Eiffel tower, you coming?" |
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| Author: | StudMuffin308 [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 2:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: NLP style texting |
me..... i like to keep things light... oer texting.... possibly something deep.... but more eep in person... dont be afraid... you have to risk everything to gain everything... trust me... |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: NLP style texting |
Mark your embedded commands with double spaces before and after, it's far more effective than capitilisation which can be spotted; then follow them with an attentional refocus question beginning with either -"how...." "when...." "Do you..." or "if...." but avoid "why" |
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