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Author:  shiznt [ Sun Oct 28, 2012 10:51 pm ]
Post subject:  NLP for good

I'm dating a girl who has only been in the country for a few years, and to be honest we mostly communicate through body language. She still has trouble understanding things and overall is a weird girl (i like weird) and sometimes misinterperts things (nothing I cant fix though). She's having some trouble expressing how she feels to me because she is embarassed (unless she has a drink or too haha).

My question is how can I use NLP to help me portray how I feel, and let her open up more to me? She has a really rough time with her parents and I am willing to help her, but my natural game prevents me from acting needy and making it obvious I want to help, so I need her to trust me. (shes only been in one relationship and was heartbroken to the point she never wanted to date someone again, but she has said she is more comfortable with me than anyone else before)

tl;dr what pattern can I use for her to be open, trust and attracted to me without looking creepy or needy, because i'm busy as shit and I dont have time to spend hours with her gaining trust that slowly.

and to be honest I actually care and want to help her without needing anything in return because she looks like someone who really needs it. thanks.

Author:  OMalley [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 8:27 pm ]
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Well, you could use some basic techniques like mirroring her body position, her tone of voice, her energy (if she's a quiet girl, don't be too excentric, hope you get it, man, my English isn't very good hahaha).

NLP is all about improving the way you communicate, however I think that covert hypnosis techniques (patterns, etc.) are kinda worthless if she doesn't even understand your language.

So, mirror her and look her deeply in the eye (which is different from staring at her): our eyes are like "the mirrors of the soul", they are a magnificent rapport tool.

I had the same problem as you with a Brazilian girl (she could only understand Spanish and Portuguese). I only speak Italian, French, Dutch and English, bad luck. Just mirrored her, locked eye contact and found myself speaking (some language that sounded like) Spanish with her during the next three hours (got some make outs and she was so horny she asked me to f**k her...)

All the best ;)

Author:  shiznt [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 1:00 am ]
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Thanks a lot, she has been here for six years so she understand the language pretty well and you would never know. But its abstract humor she doesnt understand as well.
for ex: "the world doesnt revolve around you"

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