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Author:  Brah [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 5:01 pm ]
Post subject:  CNN report on PUA in China
http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/world/ ... cnn?hpt=C2
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 5:35 pm ]
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The chinese guy's opener:

"Hi, if you don't mind, could I get your number and maybe we could go for a coffee sometime?"

FAIL.

I feel sorry for his students.
Author:  Brah [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 9:27 pm ]
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definitely a fail for western cultures, but I'm not going to judge for china. It may be a poor translation, and/or, the social dynamics in china may be so very different that it's just hard to judge. you can't really assume the cultures are going to be the same.
Author:  Hardliquor001 [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 12:49 am ]
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definitely a fail for western cultures, but I'm not going to judge for china. It may be a poor translation, and/or, the social dynamics in china may be so very different that it's just hard to judge. you can't really assume the cultures are going to be the same.
Ha yea you're right.
Author:  Ali5400 [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 9:18 am ]
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Actually here in Asia(Or most Chinese countries here.) that opener works fine.
You're right the social dynamics here are waaaayyyy different.
That's why getting the number is nothing yet.
Author:  JohnSharp [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 11:06 pm ]
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Wow, this thing is really global now.
Author:  Oga [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 2:30 pm ]
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I really see why these fellas have to become better with women to get them. Because Chinese culture until recently favoured towards having male children, China is basically a total bukkake fest. Lots of men competing for much fewer women, so the fellas realize they have to be good at the game, or else as mystery put it, their genes will be mercilessly wiped clean from existence, if someone can directly quote mstery on that I'd appreciate it, too fucking lazy to search the quot :roll:
Author:  BlueWolf [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 7:33 pm ]
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@Aiken How different are the cultures in terms of PU? Will some openers not work over there that work perfectly here? Can you elaborate? Thanks.
Author:  Ali5400 [ Thu Feb 17, 2011 10:27 am ]
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@Aiken How different are the cultures in terms of PU? Will some openers not work over there that work perfectly here? Can you elaborate? Thanks.
Different openers will work depending on the situation.
I was just saying that the opener in the video will work since the culture here is different and numbers aren't that hard to get.
Author:  the_modern_warrior [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 8:30 am ]
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haha funny, but yeah asian chicks are a bit more open to being seduced than american/european chicks
Author:  Ali5400 [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 12:24 pm ]
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haha funny, but yeah asian chicks are a bit more open to being seduced than american/european chicks
Actually the culture is more open/sociable to people in general.
Author:  Sketchstyles [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 4:15 am ]
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Actually here in Asia(Or most Chinese countries here.) that opener works fine.
You're right the social dynamics here are waaaayyyy different.
That's why getting the number is nothing yet.

This is retarded.


The social dynamics are different and there is a different 'vibe' when it comes to how you interact with people but the overall idea is the same:

Be friendly, non threatening, fun and not needy - people will be attracted to you.

Tango asking that girl for her number and suggesting coffee isn't very good or isn't very good 'game' BUT if the girl is attracted to him and feels secure enough (qualified/has some comfort) then it doesn't matter what he says - she will see him again.

95% of Chinese PUA's 'game' is direct and goes like this:


Hey i saw you, thought you were beautiful and seem unique/special, maybe if you have time we could have coffee together sometime, may i have your number?

They have this fked up idea that they can just go direct, N close as fast as possible and then try to build attraction, qualify and build comfort via the phone.

Also Qualification is different in Asia - vastly different to how it works in the West.

I am not Asian but i have extensive experience in 'Asian' PUA (both picking up Chinese girls and teaching Chinese guys how to pick up Chinese girls).


For anyone who has a reasonable amount of experience - you know that the opener doesn't really matter/isn't a big deal - whats important is that you are non threatening, have an obvious reason to be talking to them (that the target can understand) and that you can transition off your opener well.
Author:  Tasty [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 2:04 pm ]
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Two guys can open with the exact same opener "hi would you mind if I got your number and we could get coffee sometime"

..and they can be totally different. One can be seeking rapport where it sounds like a question and is a bit more needy. The other can be breaking rapport where his voice gets deeper toward the end and is more dominant. I could open with that and make it fun


"hi... i want your number.. because.. *looks over shoulder and back* we could go get coffee sometime"
Author:  TheNaturalPlayboy [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 4:01 pm ]
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LOL it doesn't work that way, you don't beg or ask for a womans phone number right away, you need to do some efforts and why she should give you her phone number! looooooooooool :lol:
Author:  lolaskate [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 10:16 am ]
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So juggler is in china now?
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