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Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Feb 18, 2014 1:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Fake Resistance vs Real Resistance [+ infield]
A lesson in token/fake resistance for newbies.

80% of the verbal and physical resistance/objections you'll get from the girl, will be fake/token resistance.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cv94deX-g6c[/youtube]
Author:  prince_prince [ Tue Feb 18, 2014 2:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fake Resistance vs Real Resistance [+ infield]
Prreeeaachhh.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Feb 18, 2014 2:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fake Resistance vs Real Resistance [+ infield]
Quote:
Prreeeaachhh.
:) I'm trying but very crucial tip though because most guys are in the habit of giving up on the set @ the first sight of verbal objection or "No".
Author:  Donston [ Tue Feb 18, 2014 3:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fake Resistance vs Real Resistance [+ infield]
Great content ^_^! I would like to add on ... if you are a beginner/average dude ... if you can't decipher whether if its real resistance or token resistance ... then get experiences first. "You can't connect the dots looking forward you can only connect them looking backwards" - S.J.

Therefore, have a rule called the 4 times rule by Alexander from RSD. The 4 times rule is that you are entitled to approach the same girl 4 times. So you approach and you stay in set up to 4 times or you approach the same girl later on the night again and again 4 times.

Either you approach, she resists, (apply 4 times rule) try another approach, she resists, try another angle to get her to open up, .... repeat ... and try 4 times. You are like a sells person who will not take no for an answer and you annoyingly persists until she gives up ^_^!

The point is to keep trying 4 times so you can develop that muscle of persistence. So if you approach and she says "Fuck off ... you shit face bugger!" ... Don't leave ... grab your balls and stay and try again ... try another angle to open her up ... The point is to build that muscle! A high percentage of the time they will open up after the 2nd try! Normally, they are not that hostile...

When you get enough experience ... you start to see a pattern of common token resistance and you can counter it before the girl can even say it but she is thinking it! Common rationalizations that girls are thinking are:

1) I'm here with my friends I have to get back to them.
2) Is this guy dangerous/creepy?
3) Is he alone?
4) Is he a player?
5) Does he know what he is doing?
6) Does he do this all the time?

So you can counter token of resistance by using false time constraints or rationalize for the girl before they happen by saying things like:
1) "Your cute I had to meet you. I don't normal do this but I had to meet you."
2) "2 second 2 seconds ... I just want to get to know you."
3) "This will only take a second."
4) "If you have to go then go ... (as she leaves) ... wait wait wait quick question!"
5) "I'm here with some friends ... I can't stay long ... but I had to meet you."
6) "I'm a nice guy ... stay for a second ... "

For going for the make out ... if she resists say:
1) "2 seconds, 2 seconds ... one quick kiss" ...
2) "Your friends won't see ... real quick ... real quick" ... after you isolate her where friends can't see you guys ...
3) "It doesn't count as sex" ... my favourite ^_^!

As long you rationalize for the girl ... you will counter that token of resistance. The psychology of this is that you are sympathizing with the girl because you understand how she feels/thinking. So if you say: "2 seconds 2 seconds ... I just want to get to know you real quick ... I'm here with my friends I can't stay long ..." ... The girl is thinking, "Oh he just wants to talk to me for 2 seconds ... I can stay ... Plus he isn't here alone ... he is not a creep ..."

Great post! Love the infield video!

Sincerely,

Donston
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