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Go indirect and switch once she's comfortable to build attraction and be direct from there.
Dude that's always been the idea haha. The problem with sasha's game is the fact that he goes COMPLETELY direct, acts really needy and almost begs for the number.
It's all good and well getting numbers...but don't you wanna do it with your head held high? It feels a lot better to have the girl chasing you, rather than the other way round.
I'm just experimenting right now with this. What I try to do is take bits and pieces of other people's game and find that which really works well for me. I haven't tried anything really new for a while. I probably won't stick with all of Sasha's stuff because really it's just not me, but I'm definitely keeping alot of the stuff he does that doesn't make him look like a total social retard.
You have to give Sasha props though for some of the shit test lines he comes up with. Those were really helpful in field.
I don' think going that direct will work for me, but it worked well for my friend. I'm amazed that he got results with this in the first place because this was the first real success for him since I've been training him. He used MM techniques for 3 weeks with me in field and got 2 numbers from a couple HB7's, but they were both really cold and flaked later. This one from the interaction I highly doubt will flake.
I have a theory that basically says that your pickup methodology has to fit your personality or you will be in-congruent and then it will be obvious that you're faking.
I'm a guy with more of a player personality. My friend's more cave man pick up. He actually used to be a natural in high school, but after college he's had no luck until I started helping him about 3 weeks ago. I'm talking like about 10 years of nothing. I think the key for him is finding that natural and bringing him back.
In general, I believe a man has to have balls and is to be the hunter. There are many methods of hunting. Mine is being a seducer because I genuinely enjoy the game.
Someone who hates the game (as most think of it) and prefers complete honesty and openness, like my friend, is going to do better going direct and speaking his mind, as long as he does it with balls and humor because his conscience won't be eating at him and making him feel bad. I think religious people especially have this in their head. I used to be really religious, so I can kind of relate. PUA stuff didn't ever come natural to me. It took me 9 years to get any consistent success (partially because I was too pussy to just try the stuff I was reading).
I think most guys like me have too much ego to do that cave man style successfully. I genuinely enjoy the chase and the traps I set to net her like a rabbit in a field. I enjoy playing around. I like manipulating people and messing with their heads a bit in a fun non-damaging way. Also I have a sense of pride that is an important part of my manhood and a high self esteem or self image. To me chasing a woman is demeaning. She should come to me. If that makes me a jerk or an asshole, I guess I'm a jerk and an asshole, but I'm a jerk and an asshole who gets laid.
