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I am a total newbie when it comes to pick up artisting. And I am worried about the conversation after the opening.
What to talk about, ask questions? Get the girl to ask questions about me?
How do I do this? I wanna approach girls between 20-25 years old.
Enganador
Material. Have MANY interesting stories lined up before you even go to the place to talk to the women. Write them out, practice them in a mirror or even by recording yourself. That way you get rid of the stupid things we all do while talking. PUA videos teach this and as well speech classes do to. The stories will be second nature to you. It will feel rehearsed at first which weirds me out like the girl will somehow know but it will work!What to talk about, ask questions? Get the girl to ask questions about me?
How do I do this? I wanna approach girls between 20-25 years old.
Enganador
They should raise dhv. Also funny moments in the story as well. Constantly challenge her. What I mean by challenge is moments in the story instead of rambling on just to get to the point of it juice it up and have fun with your story, throw stuff out there like we were in omaha nebraska .... small town girl like you probably doesn't have any idea where thats at? She will be pulled in because that is exactly what you are doing. Little bit of a neg and a question is basically my definition of challenging her. The questions for you will come once shes interested. The stories don't have to be true and its not lying, its flirting
The awkward silence is something that I fear alot. Just be ready. We all have mini computers in our pockets. Droids Iphones they have the internet. They can show pictures that back your stories up. I use the pics on my facebook. Make sure she sees its as well on my fb. That way its a subtle way to get her to say " hey you got a facebook?" Just lookin for the ioi of her saying that. The pictures will keep it really interesting. Think about it if I was showing you pictures as I type this you would even be more interested on what I am saying.
Also last thing be yourself and have fun while you are doing this. Some convo will come to you naturally when you are relaxed and not fearing the 1 million things we all love to fear in a pickup. Lose yourself in the stories if you are really into the story and having fun she will be doing the same.
Hope I helped!