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| Author: | Haakzter [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 12:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'm a loser... |
As the title says, yes it is true. I'm a loser. I've been a loser all my life. I've been afraid of everything it is possible of being afraid of. Cars, boats, water in genereal, plains, any social situation and ofcourse women. And today, I had a mental breakdown. I have to admit, that at the point I am writing this I am currently toxicated. I'm a 19 year old boy who have never gotten laid, nor made out with any women. I've been wanting to change this part of my life, because I am sick of being a loser. Today me and some of my friends went out to town, I had my hopes up and all. I was ready for a night of change. Although the night didn't turn out the way I wanted it to. I had nothing on me in order to validate my age. So I couldn't get in anywhere. In the end I left my friends so they could roam free while I called my dad and asked him to pick me up. Before I left this girl neglicated me by calling me babyface. At this part the depression started to catch up on me. The others would have a whole night of fun while I would be stuck in disgrace because of some stupid mistake I made. When I came home my loser life started flashing before my eyes and before I knew I was crying tears like a disappointed kid on Christmas Eve. I hate this part of myself. I'm this overemotional nice guy of an idiot who can't figure anything out or fix anything about my life. Although I have been trying I feel so far behind. I have read "The Game" by Neil Straus and various of other books and seduction sites. But I cannot find any confidence within myself. I am going to get professional help and some help from my brother, and I do hope that this website can help me too. I'm sort of a damaged person within, and right now everything just sucks. But I don't want to go around being a babyface anymore. I want to fix this, I want to do something with my life. That is why I am posting here. Because I am searching for assistance. Maybe I can find it here. Haakzter |
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| Author: | Verbal Seduction [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 5:08 am ] |
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yup your a loser you are whatever you say you are |
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| Author: | Haakzter [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 8:34 am ] |
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Quote: yup your a loser
True to an extent. You are not what you say you are. you are whatever you say you are You are what you think you are, I just hit a bumb yesterday. Today is a new day. I am going out again on Friday. I'm going to take my game to a new lvl. First of is the newbie mission. |
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| Author: | Firex [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 2:08 pm ] |
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Why don't you try some classes - it can feel a bit embarrassing at first, but you'll very quickly realize that at a beginners course almost everybody if not everybody is crap at the thing you are learning. You can go crazy and try out anything - its great for your confidence and you'll get to meet some new people. If you are uncomfortable with anything with an edge why don't you try something like salsa lessons - chicks are always impressed by guys that can dance as well. Oh, and if you are a scatter brain start making list of the things that you need to check now and then - I know someone who does that and it works really well for him. Personally I wouldn't think of leaving the house without checking that I have ID with me even though I'm 26 - ID, bank card, keys and phone are a must. Good luck |
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| Author: | *FlaiR* [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 4:24 pm ] |
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Hey man..I'm partially sorry for you, because guess what? you're young and only 19 years old.. you can grow soo much.. Neil Strauss was a virgin at 26 years old.. he was in the same position as you and because of his determination he became a fucking guru in the seduction community... I'm telling you right now that you're going to have to go through what we call "The pain period".. it's important that you pass through it and that you do not quit even if your ego's gonna tell you to just stop practicing.. after this period, results will come slowly and you will be surprised on how much you have changed... I recommend to you to highlight all the tricks and tips in the book "The Game".. and most important write DJ Fuji on youtube.. he's a training coach... listen to his 2 hour speaches... it's unbelievable the things he says and it will help you a LOT in field.. you can also watch "The pick up artist season 1 and 2) it's a show where Mistery from "The Game" teaches 8 nerds the Venutian arts.. anyway man, all I have to say right now is good luck!! |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 4:58 pm ] |
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Dude, stop with that talk: A winner never quits, a quitter(loser) never wins... When you fail just get up and try something different, model someone that is success full with women, and do exactly what they do...If i am you, forget all this pua shit for now, i want you to start reading tony Robbins first... cool if you need help pm me...also start working out, get body for life by phillips, but act, do something...Get david d double your dating, start with my assignment thanks me later...Baby face is good if your target girls are 15-18 that should be your target, grow some facial her... |
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| Author: | Kuja [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 6:33 pm ] |
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On top of the advice that the others have just given you I recommend you workout as much as you can. It will do wonders for your self esteem and confidence in ways you can't even imagine possible until you just do it. Think Nike - Just DO IT. |
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| Author: | T_Rex [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 6:39 pm ] |
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A bit like what skills360 said. What you have to start doing right now is work on yourself, on your innerself. Try to find a mindset. Don't think you can still stay yourself, if you wanna grow and become someone you are not. If you want something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done. In order to do that, you have to get out of your comfort zone. Dj Fuji once said ''Uncomfort is growth''. I recommend you reading a book called ''Who moved my cheese'' by Spencer Johnson M.D. ''Change'' is a very long process. And to stay motivated, you have to recognize your progress every step of the way. Take out a pen and paper and start righting out your personal goals and be sure you are working on them. I hope i helped. |
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| Author: | Dream Hunter [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 2:11 am ] |
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It seems like you were really pissed and angry when you wrote this because when I get upset too much I say stupid shit like girls are all lairs and fake bitches and other shit. Inner game comes first then outer game works. Nothing will work if you are negative although if your skills are incredibly high on the top, your sad/angry state will not affect you too much. I would suffer all the way through the pain stage and then get all the best guns and rockets to terminate my failure and have the best results. |
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| Author: | Oneiros [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 8:10 am ] |
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I'm 19 too. Been with one woman, but I the last thing I see myself is a loser. I am untapped potential. Not a loser. If you feel depressed, listen to some NIN. Go work out. Exert the frustration. You'll feel much cleaner then. |
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