Hi:)
I'm DareForMore (DFM for short)
Where to begin?!...
I'm 20, living with my sister and her husband, which is a pain in the arse for bringing women back. 4 months ago I split up from my first girlfriend who I was with for 3 years, slept with 5 girls since, all average and were all pretty poor experiences (willing to elaborate if anyones interested)
So I read The Game by Neil Strauss, purely for entertainment purposes at the time.A whole new world opened up to me! So I started to read up on here, I found the lay reports very interesting!
Jeez, the idea of someone being able to walk up to a girl in day light and end up with a lay on the same day is amazing!
I'm here to learn, I have inner belief, no routines etc, I'm a blank canvas. But I come with enthusiasm and a great deal of determination to become a PUA. I'll read, learn, listen and repeat a million times then get myself out of my house and put theory into practice. . . .
But where to begin?
Theres so much information, so many different teachers, so many routines and ideas. What do I read first?
My main flaw is inner belief, I believe that people can meet a girl then have sex with her the same day, sometimes even in public, but I dont believe that I can do it. I dont feel I could go out the house then take a girl to a cinema and get her to give me head, or get a lay.
I can get laid, but its poor. The women are average (Not putting these women down, I just feel I can get 9's and 10's, I have the looks, I just dont have the game, I'm not a natural, I dont know what to say, do, think or act around 7+'s)
When I've got laid, it all feels so ... boring... awkward... I read the lay reports and other articles and see that PUA's get girls doing anything they want. I want a girl I've never met before to scream stupidly loud and make her go wild - I want to be that guy who does this to women!
So, where do I begin? What books should I read? Where should I start?
Tips, links and advice would be greatly appreciated - as is the information I've already read!