Hi there,
I am Bluesun777.
First of all - sorry for my bad English - but I am not a native speaker and I guess, I need some more practice
Usually I just read a lot in this forum or in books about PU, because I am not happy with my situation.
I am 27 years old, and turning 28 soon. I already had 3LTRs and some ONS. But in general I am not very successful with women. The last time I had sex was on last year's Halloween.
And I think everyone will agree with me, that this is way too long ago.
But I don't want you guys to think, I would be a lazy bone. I really try to work as hard as I can to have a interesting life. But it seems like nothing has improved since than.
I am a Event and Nightlife Photographer, which allows me to meet a lot of people and go to my favourite parties for free. I am doing a diving, snowboarding, a lot of travelling and learning to play the guitar.
Well, I wouldn't say, that I am a shy person. I am currently working in a café and so, I am talking to a lot of people every day.
What I still have to learn is:
- How do I overcome my AA?
- How do I - when I made it to approach s/o - come to a KC or a FC
I know - the answers are to be found in all of this nice threads and topics. The thing is, there seems to be something blocked in my brain! Every time I do some Inner-game - it just makes no sense to be afraid, but when I plan to go out, and approach s/o, it just stays a plan.
Maybe I already know some reasons and problems: limiting beliefs and not enough alpha behaviour.
- I am not very large (just 1.71m)
- My Hair is falling out (why I cut it down to just 3mm - which I actually start to like)
- I am very slim (even changing my diet and going to the gym didn't help - seems that I am a hopeless hard gainer).
I am pretty sure, that women choose partners for sex who are large, muscular and well looking - so why should they choose me? I know, that this thinking is not helpful, but it is just in my mind. I wanna get rid of this attitude.
But I can't do it without help.
I really hope, that some of you guys can give me some hints and clues. I will try hard and post about my stories and experiences, so you can help me to figure out, what was wrong.
In the end I also know, that I am an awesome guy. One you can have heaps of fun with. I just have to find a way to show it to the world (especially to the girls) and to get rid of my negative thoughts and limiting beliefs.
I am open now for any suggestions, clues or hints.
And thx for welcome me to your community!
Cheers, BlueSun777