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| AFC to PUA: Beginning My Journey... https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=7658 |
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| Author: | Advice [ Mon Sep 24, 2007 6:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | AFC to PUA: Beginning My Journey... |
well I'm 24 years old, I'm 6'4, 240 lbs, good looking, good dresser, well educated (BA in Criminal Justice), funny, athletic, nice guy, have my own apt and work as a financial advisor. All my life I've been a AFC, I never got girls in high school and lost my virginity at 19 to my college g/f of 2 years... after that I went back to being a AFC. I've always been afraid and shy to approach women and rarely ever pulled ass, I know a lot of hot girls but always got stuck in the friend zone and for the most when I did pull ass, I was basically very blunt about wanting sex with the girl and she for some unknown reason gave it up and have only bagged about 2 or 3 girls I would brag about... A couple months ago when I moved out into my apt I was like ok heres my chance to get women, I have my own place now to bring them and don't live with my parents anymore thinking thats why I couldnt get laid... move in the apt and same shit, can't ever pull ass... So one day I go into Borders to pick up a study guide for a test and walk by a lil thick ass black book called "How to Succeed with Women". I was kind of embarassed to buy it but said wtf, I haven't been laid in months and only had one girlfriend in 5 years, I could use a lil help. To this point I knew about "game", game was what got you numbers and laid... I just didn't know how to use it, or how to implement it, didn't even know how to establish a game or what it entailed. I started reading this book and was intrigued, it made so much sense but I was the AFC doing all the wrong shit nice guys do and getting shot down. It gave specific examples of mistakes that directly related to my life, mistakes I'd made for years... building girls up by complimenting them, letting them walk all over you, failing their shit tests, bugging them as to why they wouldn't date me or have sex with me... I always new nice guys finished last but I never knew how to be kind of a dick without pissing her off. This book really opened my eyes up to this stuff and I learned a lot about phone game, building comfort and rapport, non-threatening openers and such but never implemented it to any success. Then the PUA show with Mystery comes on and I realize, hey theres actually guys out there who can teach me this shit, its not just stuff written up by a 45 year old Professor on Sex whatever or psychology... There are actually PUAs that go out hundreds of nights a year and meet hundreds of women!!! I started watching the PUA show, watching training videos on youtube of all the masters and reading the forums and just ordered Mystery's book and "The Game" by Neil Strauss... All my friends think I'm ridiculous and say dude just be yourself and talk to them... well I've done that shit and it gets me to the friend zone... I'm the one they're calling because they fucked Tommy and now he's telling her friends she's a slut or whatever. Well for the first night the other night we went out to the bar and I decided I was gonna use some of this shit... I met a tall blonde wearing the typical naughty school girl outfit which was the theme that night at the bar, she was an HB7 maybe 8, anyways my dudes did their thing telling her she's hot, buying her drinks, typical bullshit AFC's dude... I dont, I want to cuz thats what I've done for years but I don't... I make her qualify herself for me, walked away and talked to other girls when she talked to another guy or talked away from me and negged her for doing karate classes and being a car mechanic, tell her shes not my type cuz shes too old, only 27, she's got a kid and going through a divorce... all of these seem to intrigue her more so I ask her to go smoke outside and take her hand for a touch test, see how she repsonds, well she takes my hand and we go outside. I knew then I would easily # and kiss close but decide to invite her back to my place with my friends to hang out, she gives some b/s story about her being busy tmw... I could tell she wanted to but she rode with her g/f and didn't wanna say yes without approval. Well we end up talking to her friend and shes game to come back as well so we get to my place, I isolate her in my room and kiss her, we go back out with everyone else and after a while everyone leaves, she decides to stay and we fool around all night and I hit it in the morning as well and take her home... Then a couple hours later she comes back over to watch football and I hit it at half time.. Needless to say I'm now totally devoted to learning the "game" and honing my skills in all areas as I truely believe any man can be taught to be a ladies man. It's like you act like you don't want it and they're not good enough and it works... I never thought I'd be able to bag a chick by acting like I wasn't trying to but it worked!! I'm amazed and plan on being on here for a while... |
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