Hey guys. I am scrabbler, 23 yr old successful entrepreneur from Ireland. Here is my current dilemma: 4 yrs ago a german foreign exchange student, 4 yrs my senior stayed at my parents house for 6 months and long story short we kinda fell in love and she left on very good terms.
However she returned home to germany and got back with her BF, i got on with my life and figured we might see each other far down the road. She has now come back for a week for my sisters wedding and is single, perfect situation right? Well she is being kind of weird, she isn't ignoring me but we were inseperable before she left and now she is acting weird and stand-offish, i know its not my looks, i look way better and older than last time.
WTF? I thought we would be all up in each other, and my attitude is not the problem(i think), i am being cool and not too eager. I just don't get it, she couldn't keep her hands off me(and she obv was not the sort of person who normally cheats, took a lot of prep work and quite a bit of convincing to get her the 1st time
). I think it has to be that i am doing very well in my business and am intimidating to her now, cos her behavior is congruent with being self-conscious and intimidated. Like she thinks i'm too good for her now or something, which i do not(she's hot) What kind of moves should i use to get her comfortable around me again?