But surely this can either turn out to be a great night or absolutely nothing gained. What do you mean money fame looks is to be gained by meeting strangers. And tell me, what do you do that makes you prefer these sort of nights to others
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| Author: | whysoskinny [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 5:50 pm ] |
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Do you ever get to the point that, all your friends are busy doing something or away. You are new to a place (my first week in uni), you dont know anyone. But you still want to test yourself and see if you can bring a girl back to your place. Has anyone literally ever left there house alone, gone to a club alone, and come back with a good looking girl. If so, tell me what you think and whats best |
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| Author: | GetmetheGirl [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 6:05 pm ] |
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Dude, for years mate! I prefer going out by yourself, its such a test. its a game to yourself. You can't rely on anyone, besides by going out by yourself you know your there to meet people and that you won't have any competition from your wing etc. I make a habit of moving to cities i don't know, i prefer strangers to friends. honestly way more interesting. What can i say to encourage you? look, everything you want, i.e. money, friends, fame, girls, its all out there waiting, opportunities come from strangers. honestly! Vince Lynch |
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| Author: | whysoskinny [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 6:09 pm ] |
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But surely this can either turn out to be a great night or absolutely nothing gained. What do you mean money fame looks is to be gained by meeting strangers. And tell me, what do you do that makes you prefer these sort of nights to others )
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| Author: | ModelBoy [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 6:51 pm ] |
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The great thing about enterring a city where everything is new.. is no one knows you so you can practically pretend to be anyone you want. make yourself look original next to the 100men that are from that place. Since you're new, why not be a tourist and ask the prettiest lady for the nice places to go, and if you can get her to be into you, ask her to take you there. the fact that you're new, you can practically make up crazy interesting lines that if you put the words out right will seem interesting and veryy possible because they happen where you re from
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| Author: | Kem [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 8:44 pm ] |
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When you go out by yourself it's harder, you can't rely on your wing to be there and give you confidence, however, when you go out alone and open a girl you are precieved as the more attractive guy who doesn't let an opportunity go by. When you're opening a girl and you have someone with you it seems like you're not confident enough to do it yourself, and when you do it alone the girl takes you more seriously, sees you as more sociable and eventually wants to see you again, if you do it the right way. There's nothing special to being alone, just knowing what sets you can open. A 2-set is a bit harder because you can't isolate. But 3-sets and more are very okay. All you gotta do is approach, and explore your social limits. Get a girl to buy you a drink, make it your challange, it'll be a fun game for you, and you won't be too freaked out. Your goak shouldn't be getting the girl into your bed. Just be social, and she'll come there herself. -Kem |
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| Author: | @TheRealDonnyV [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 9:05 pm ] |
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I much prefer alone. My friends are idiots 
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| Author: | whysoskinny [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 9:38 pm ] |
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So if I gave myself the goal of setting out and bringing back a 7 to my house, how would I go about playing that |
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| Author: | Kem [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 9:53 pm ] |
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Again, this shouldn't be your goal. Your goal should be to meet new people, have fun and enjoy yourself, that way you won't worry about getting her home with you, or think too much of what to say, you'll just be the fun guy people love to be around, and that's very attractive to women. Go out and have fun. Once you've met a girl and you think she's fun, talk to her about something in your room, about a video game, a clip you saw online, a book you just bought, anything, and then, when you see her again, or even the same day, when you walk by your home you tell her you want to show that to her and that she only has 15 minutes because you have to go to someplace. Then she'll be at your place and you did it. Learn the techniques, it's all kinda difficult to elaborate here, but what you can basically do is set your mind just to have some fun and socialize. What I like to do is take a girl to my place once, get her into my room so that she's comfortable there, and then see her some other time, when she comes over again, she's already used to my room and she'll feel more comfortable there. Good luck, hope I helped! :) -Kem |
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| Author: | thebigtone [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 11:05 pm ] |
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What about when they ask why you are out on your own ? It may be succesful but it ain't normal! |
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| Author: | whysoskinny [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 11:34 pm ] |
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exactly. You see, this is why it contradicts itself. You want to be having a good time and socializing. Ok... so why are you on your own if thats what you want. Everything you just said, i would take those reasons and goals and go to my friends house and have fun and socialize. This is purely for the main goal of pulling a HB. |
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| Author: | Kem [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 8:48 am ] |
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You think too much. I went out plenty of times and no one has ever asked me why I'm out alone. And if they do, all you can say is "I'm new, lost my friends, can I borrow yours?" with a huge smile on your face. What you're doing right now is look for reasons why not go out alone. Just do it, go out there and have fun, once the girls see you're fun to be around they'll come over without any special reason. -Kem |
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| Author: | Surielx [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 9:22 am ] |
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Salut! Going out alone is pumping up your self confidence! Seriously, I had the same problem, once my friends were laming so the stayed at home and the other time I was visiting my family - I take it as an opportunity to stretch the limits and take advantage. My #1 rule is to go to places that are completely new for me, where I know nobody and examine the new material. This is the way I was testing for example apocalypse opener. Take the material that needs more guts than your normal game and use the opportunity and the fact that no one knows you. I know that from the point of your inner game it can be demoralizing to go out there alone, all by yourself but think about what you can tell your friends the next day! Once there was a time when I was to go to a party with my 2 buddies. In the last moment they both resigned so I was pissed off. I took a ride to a club I was never before and found that opportunity to test Hiroshima opener - this was a double motivation: testing new material + the fact the really pissed me off. So the next day I sent them pictures I made that night and at the end we were laughing from the situation. Really, I don't see that kind of situation as an opportunity to take girl home but instead I take advantage of being alone in a place full of girls who will never see me again. Salut! Surielx. |
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| Author: | whysoskinny [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 10:14 am ] |
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You guys are actually probably right. I have looked around to find the Hiroshima opener but every video if it means that I have to enter my email address and register, can someone tell me what it is or post the link to a video |
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| Author: | Kimba [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 10:18 am ] |
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I find it somewhat easier at times without friends there. Then again it really depends on the situation, if it's something like a clothing store I can do great at opening and such but it's only when I drink I tend to get all seedy and drop stupid lines if I'm around my friends. I've since stopped drinking so I can do it without alcohol :p |
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| Author: | Kem [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 10:19 am ] |
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Hiroshima opener: Props: A digital camera and a page saying "*Random name* Wish you were here" What you then do is walk up to a bunch of girls and say "Hey, my friend *random name* couldn't come over today so I decided to take pictures with the coolest people in here to show him what he's missing." Then you show them the page and take a picture with them. Good luck. -Kem |
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