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| Author: | BBanter [ Sat Jul 17, 2010 1:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How did I end up here then? :o) |
Hello all, The basics... Located: Devon in the UK, spend a lot of time in London & Cambridge though Age: 28 How: REALLY struggling to meet new girls & a friend lent me a copy of double your dating PU How long: Studying/practising for 5-6 years Methods: David DeAngleo's Cocky/Funny as this naturally sits well with me Hobbies/Passions: Motoring, Clubbing, Hike/Bike, Travel - all the usual! To be honest nothing gets me more excited than a chance to go out with a good bunch of people that is a mix of people I know well and girls I don't. Goals: Loads - the obvious get loved up, settle down, family etc. Others... 14% BFat, Millionaire by 2020, Live in a castle, 5 cars, charity, spiritual, multiple other lifestyle goals. Well... my fascination with Pick up started in 2005 - having been lent DD's double your dating. I shared this with a close group of 3 other guys & we started heading out together and bouncing off each other, sharing stories etc. I went from never managing to close anything, simply make friends to being busy seeing people all the time. I went through the phase of sleeping with a lot of girls (by my standards) and soon found it empty and not satisfying. By the end of 2005 I had met the girl of my dreams(Size 8(US size 2) 5'10, 32E & stunning blonde - and the most chilled, sweet personality you could ask for - the WHOLE package!), achieved the impossible with her and in a short space of time we dived into a serious relationship. 4 years later (July 2009) she graduated from uni and binned me to find herself. This left me crippled & unhappy as you may imagine. I spent the last year out there, re-read materials I had before & have spent very little time single. However the ex is a hard one to replace so I have bounced from one to the other simply finding flaws. Done the girl next door with the great personality right through to a couple highly strung Miss xxxxx model. I am now 3.5 weeks single - the longest in 2010 and I need to get back out there... BUT... Why am I here? If I go out with a bunch of friends I can bounce off & I get introduced to a mutual friend I am attracted to my strike rate is about 80% - I tend to end up seeing them. BUT Put me in a social situation where I do not have a wingman/close group to bounce off & no introductions I become a social recluse. Such a contrast from the outgoing AMOG to the social retard in seconds. I have a few issues now... my friends are either now loved up & not going out socially or do not want to introduce me to any more of their friends as I am known as a heart breaker lol. So I NEED to get my approach handled & my confidence in a new social group sorted. Want to achieve the following: 1. Learn approach & lose the fear of approach 2. Learn how to quickly establish being the AMOG in a new group of people Any pointers to posts, literature or even classes held in the UK be a great start. Thanks guys... look forward to reading your stories and sharing my stories. You can follow my antonymous life on twitter... "BatchelorBanter" Cheers, |
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