PUA Forum :: How to pick up girls without talking?

I am completely new to this, haven't even completed the newbie challenge yet: is it realistic to learn this in a month?

What I'm more curious about is where you are at in your current level of seduction success (since you stated you are new) so that we can give you advice that is appropriate to your current situation.

Tom, inner game is the process of working on your beliefs, frames, and other internal conflicts that may or may not be holding you back from what you want.

Is this not just self confidence? The term "inner game" sounds a bit too crouching kitten, hidden lizard for me but ah well.

I can actually talk to attractive women whithout crapping myself but I find it almost impossible to approach complete strangers and to build up attraction (always end up in the friend zone).

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I can actually talk to attractive women whithout crapping myself but I find it almost impossible to approach complete strangers and to build up attraction (always end up in the friend zone).

Tom, I'm curious about what you want here. You started off saying that you want to approach girls who don't speak your language. Since you are on this forum, I'm assuming you want to get better at pickup, but what for exactly? What will being able to approach strangers and build attraction do for you? If you can already talk to women you "warm meet" (social circle, friends) without losing your shit, perhaps you should start there with something simple instead of biting off so much that its hard for you to chew on.

If you do want to work on cold approaches, one of the first things is to know what you want with those interactions. Friendship? Sex? Girlfriend? Know your purpose in talking to those women. If you are clear (and comfortable) you want sex with them, they are more likely to sense that clarity and respond accordingly. The friend zone is a lack of sexuality and purpose.

Author:	Tom1 [ Tue May 25, 2010 6:21 pm ]
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If you are in another country, the language of which you don't understand, how do you pick up girls with only body language and kino?

Author:	Ezo [ Tue May 25, 2010 6:29 pm ]
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Feel like this ones mine.. You need to become alpha. This sounds difficult and it is. You need to have awesome inner game, radiate confidence and it has to be clear for everyone that you are alpha. You can do this by controlling the bodylanguage and stuff but the best way is to work on your inner game. It works wonders.

Author:	Tom1 [ Tue May 25, 2010 6:46 pm ]
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I am completely new to this, haven't even completed the newbie challenge yet: is it realistic to learn this in a month?

Author:	Slywalker [ Tue May 25, 2010 6:46 pm ]
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Just do your usual routine, keep talking, pretend she understands you. I picked up two girls in Spain that knew zero English, I just did things as usual, they didn't understand what I said but they understood that I was charming!

Author:	Truncheon [ Tue May 25, 2010 7:25 pm ]
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Speak with your bodylanguage, make eye contact, whink, etc. etc.

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Author:	Ezo [ Tue May 25, 2010 8:31 pm ]
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Quote: I am completely new to this, haven't even completed the newbie challenge yet: is it realistic to learn this in a month? Depends on what you are looking for man. If you only wish to improve your abilities with women, yes if you work hard you will see a change. To master inner game though... Not a chance. I have been doing this intensly for more than 2 years and I am nowhere near my full potential. Newbie challenge? I guess you refer to the Style life challenge? Didnt read that one yet. The most important two things you need is the decision to learn this no matter what and practice. Thats the key.

Author:	Tom1 [ Tue May 25, 2010 8:44 pm ]
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What exactly is "inner game"? Is it just natural game? People keep saying it but I can't find a definition anywhere.

Author:	hristiyan [ Tue May 25, 2010 11:00 pm ]
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Tom, inner game is the process of working on your beliefs, frames, and other internal conflicts that may or may not be holding you back from what you want. The word "inner" is used to describe these things because you can't see them from the outside and they aren't directly addressed with actions such as "say this" or "stand this way." The question of picking up women who speak a language you don't understand is a great one, but its also a bit advanced as it requires you to shed the belief that language is necessary in the first place. What I'm more curious about is where you are at in your current level of seduction success (since you stated you are new) so that we can give you advice that is appropriate to your current situation. Lets us know where you are at in your game now and where you realistically want to be within the next few months.

Author:	Mr Endorphin [ Wed May 26, 2010 3:11 am ]
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Hey all... So I live in Prague but am from England! & Its true 100% had a girl walk of the dance floor and come straight to me and kiss me! with nothing more than eye contact and body language! My wing has seen this sort of thing done by me a few times so its 100% legit! I prefer contact so I can wind them up & press all there buttons (cos its fun) but if you are true to your self & keep it cool! 6 - 8 second glances @ a time with narrowed eyes @ the last 3 seconds with a cheeky small smile & believe me this will work!

Author:	Tom1 [ Wed May 26, 2010 4:12 am ]
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Quote: What I'm more curious about is where you are at in your current level of seduction success (since you stated you are new) so that we can give you advice that is appropriate to your current situation. I'm afraid to say that I have pretty much got nowhere so far. It isn't that I have just been reading material for ages and not putting into practice but I only heard about PUA under 2 weeks ago. I am not in as bad a situation as, for instance, these people who go on the TV program "The Pick-Up Artist" are to start with: I can actually talk to attractive women whithout crapping myself but I find it almost impossible to approach complete strangers and to build up attraction (always end up in the friend zone). Quote: Tom, inner game is the process of working on your beliefs, frames, and other internal conflicts that may or may not be holding you back from what you want. Is this not just self confidence? The term "inner game" sounds a bit too crouching kitten, hidden lizard for me but ah well.

Author:	Ezo [ Wed May 26, 2010 5:53 pm ]
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Quote: Is this not just self confidence? The term "inner game" sounds a bit too crouching kitten, hidden lizard for me but ah well. This is a common misconception... Inner game is so much more than just confidence. It is wisdom, confidence, inner peace, acceptance, tolerance, social intelligence. If you were a Jedi, it would be your force and your experience. It is hard to explain. But try to not let it frighten you, start with working your outer game. It will come.

Author:	hristiyan [ Thu May 27, 2010 12:51 am ]
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Quote: I can actually talk to attractive women whithout crapping myself but I find it almost impossible to approach complete strangers and to build up attraction (always end up in the friend zone). Tom, I'm curious about what you want here. You started off saying that you want to approach girls who don't speak your language. Since you are on this forum, I'm assuming you want to get better at pickup, but what for exactly? What will being able to approach strangers and build attraction do for you? If you can already talk to women you "warm meet" (social circle, friends) without losing your shit, perhaps you should start there with something simple instead of biting off so much that its hard for you to chew on. If you do want to work on cold approaches, one of the first things is to know what you want with those interactions. Friendship? Sex? Girlfriend? Know your purpose in talking to those women. If you are clear (and comfortable) you want sex with them, they are more likely to sense that clarity and respond accordingly. The friend zone is a lack of sexuality and purpose.

Author:	Mr. H [ Thu May 27, 2010 12:57 am ]
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Inner game= life Life= having your shit together Having your shit pulled together means you have no stress and you can focus when needed, in this case, focusing on building attraction:). You know what i'm sayin' ?

Author:	Tom1 [ Thu May 27, 2010 7:29 am ]
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Quote: Quote: I can actually talk to attractive women whithout crapping myself but I find it almost impossible to approach complete strangers and to build up attraction (always end up in the friend zone). Tom, I'm curious about what you want here. You started off saying that you want to approach girls who don't speak your language. Since you are on this forum, I'm assuming you want to get better at pickup, but what for exactly? What will being able to approach strangers and build attraction do for you? If you can already talk to women you "warm meet" (social circle, friends) without losing your shit, perhaps you should start there with something simple instead of biting off so much that its hard for you to chew on. If you do want to work on cold approaches, one of the first things is to know what you want with those interactions. Friendship? Sex? Girlfriend? Know your purpose in talking to those women. If you are clear (and comfortable) you want sex with them, they are more likely to sense that clarity and respond accordingly. The friend zone is a lack of sexuality and purpose. I am going to a different country for a few weeks soon and this guy has been tasked with taking me to clubs, discos, etc. and it could be very awkward that I don't speak the language. You are right though: maybe I should have goals more solidly fixed in my mind...

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Author:	Sincere_Breeze [ Thu May 27, 2010 10:28 pm ]
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I have the same issue. I'm from US and in Kiev, I don't know Russian or Ukrainian, but I number-close, everytime I go out to the club (and I'm African-American), but it is hard for me to keep the girl, because you can't express what you want, only flirt.