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| Author: | Rookie [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 11:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | I can´t promise an interesting read, but I´d LOVE feedback! |
First of, I would like to point out that I read the guidelines saying ones introductions should be kept short. I´ve also read some of the introductions, and I´ve found that most of them in fact are very short. However, should anyone decide to read mine I aim to give them a short and compressed background story, my goals in internalizing the science and ask for start-up advice. Also, I would like to point out that English is my secondary language, so be warned. I can´t promise an interesting read, but I would LOVE feedback. I very resently got introduced to the whole concept of PUAs. Needless to say my interest for the science has escalated rapidly I want to learn more! I thrive in the company of people, and especially in groups. Like many (I suspect) on this forum I like center stage, but my ability to achieve it greatly depends on my mood. (Obviously my day does not get ruined if I don´t get it). Ideally I would like to be able to turn this ability on and off to some extent. The ability-mood thing goes both ways. Some of my perks are that I am above average good looking, -funny and -intelligent. Although I doubt anyone would describe me as their ultimate example of one of the traits. I contribute my current abilities (be them good or bad) to this combo. Because I am outgoing and seldom get embarrassed I am able to approach women to an acceptable extent, but I often fall short b/c I find it hard to be interesting enough. I try not to portray it, but I think my ability to interact with groups are better than with individuals. The fact that I am aware of this problem makes it a lot worse, but not intolerable. As I consider this one of my biggest shortcoming I would like to work on the ability of creating value. Does anyone have any advice on what to learn? Any good literature on specific value? Admittedly I have an ulterior motive of applying this knowledge to other aspects of my life, not just the pick-up scene. I want to be a master of any social scene - a great salesman. On a more general note, I´m a 23 year old law school drop-out (after a couple years) currently studying marketing. I love to travel, and I do it a lot. I have lived in the states, and am considering moving back. I am an AFC! Some day I hope to be able to contribute to this forum with some knowledge on my own, untill then I´ll try to keep people posted on my development and trials. I will greatly appreciate any advice on any subject! PS! I normally try focusing on my perceived good sides, and this post is probably influenced by that. If someone asks me about myself I will try to give them the raw and naked truth! EDIT: I need to start reading my posts before posting them. |
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| Author: | Frost [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:43 pm ] |
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Hey great to read your post and welcome to the forum! (me also being new) For your building value skills I would read the book " Attraction Isn't A Choice" By David DeAngelo. It's a good read and it helped me tremendously when it came to building confidence which may relate to your problem with demonstrating value. I'll be looking forward to your posts! ps; add my emails msn or aim if you want me to send the ebook to ya! |
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| Author: | Rookie [ Mon Sep 10, 2007 10:15 pm ] |
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Thank you for your kind reply, and thank you for the book! I will get on it right after I finish the game. |
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| Author: | mitmexican [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 5:56 am ] |
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Yo Rookie, I'm 23 also. I love to travel. I just got back form a two month stay in Taiwan. I finished my degree in engineering but I actually am considering getting a sales job becuase I'm interested in developing my people skills. I haven't finished 'The Game' yet - I'm half way. While we're new, I am planning to post some experience sarging before the month is out. |
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| Author: | Rookie [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 12:44 pm ] |
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Seems we have a lot in common. This forum is addictive! I find myself either sarging, reading or thinking about the two! I´ve proceeded to buy a couple of other books on (and off) the subject. Some of which are mentioned in The Game, and some are from recommendations on this forum. - Mystery method - The CONCISE 48 laws of power (I´ll probably buy the full book if I like it. The concise one is an 200 page introduction, and the whole is 400 pages if I´m not mistaking.) - The definitive book on body language - Unlimited power - Mastering your hidden self In addition I have "attraction isn´t a choice". It´ll probably take me ages reading all of them, but it should be worth it. |
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| Author: | P2D2 [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 3:37 pm ] |
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good first post. Welcome to the forum. - Dex |
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