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Author:  Tao [ Mon Jun 25, 2007 5:27 pm ]
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A man who lived by the sea loved seagulls. Every morning at daybreak he would go to the seaside and play with the gulls. Hundreds of gulls would come to him and not fly away. His father said, "I heard that seagulls like to play with you. Catch a few for me so that I can play with them too."

The next morning when he went to the seaside the seagulls swooped about in the skies but none came down to him.

One may try, but is unable to, hide one's inner thoughts. Even birds and animals can sense one's true feelings.
Author:  Krylon [ Tue Jun 26, 2007 3:58 am ]
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That has to be the most interesting "Introduce Yourself" I have ever read in my entire time of being here.
Author:  Tao [ Tue Jun 26, 2007 8:50 am ]
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I figured having the word 'GIRL' in the subject line was a sure fire way to get views in this section of the forum ...

Anyways, for me, I guess the story about the seagulls relates to inner game.

I'm from Sheffield in the UK (which has major flooding right now). I've been interested in seduction for some time now. I'm also in to salsa, and a very competent dancer, which gives me plenty of opportunity to mix with the ladies.

I have to confess, had something of a negative assosiatoin regarding the word Seduction. Almost like it's decieving, or tricking a woman in to bed, which I'd feel very uncomfortable with.

However, putting my best foot forward, being my best self, being attractive to women, learning to be natural, spontaneous and relaxed in HB company is totally cool with me.

Infact, that's an immediate goal for me, not to get so flustered (or lose my head) in the presence of a HB. That make sense?

Hope to learn a lot from you guys.

:)

Tao.
Author:  Starbuck [ Tue Jun 26, 2007 11:41 am ]
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I figured having the word 'GIRL' in the subject line was a sure fire way to get views in this section of the forum ...

Anyways, for me, I guess the story about the seagulls relates to inner game.

I'm from Sheffield in the UK (which has major flooding right now). I've been interested in seduction for some time now. I'm also in to salsa, and a very competent dancer, which gives me plenty of opportunity to mix with the ladies.

I have to confess, had something of a negative assosiatoin regarding the word Seduction. Almost like it's decieving, or tricking a woman in to bed, which I'd feel very uncomfortable with.

However, putting my best foot forward, being my best self, being attractive to women, learning to be natural, spontaneous and relaxed in HB company is totally cool with me.

Infact, that's an immediate goal for me, not to get so flustered (or lose my head) in the presence of a HB. That make sense?

Hope to learn a lot from you guys.

:)

Tao.
Tao, if you take away one thing, take away this..

If it's not your mom, women don't give a shyt about you.

Remember that.

If you want to get what you need in this world, you need to learn how to acquire it. Like an animal acquires it's evening meal.

No woman will give it to you out of the goodness of her heart. Unless it's your sister or something. Or you like parting with your money. :?

Therefore the world is about competition, and survival of the fittest. Women instinctively understand this. You, in your incorrect thinking, think if you're kind or nice enough women will see what a great guy you are and give you what you need. Wrong, wrong, wrong.

Save this shyt for your momma, because it aint flyin' in the real world of seduction.

So you can learn to be an alpha, or you can learn to enjoy your towel and lotion, and perhaps enjoying the company of lesser women by pulling out your wallet.

Your choice. Welcome to the forum. :wink:
Author:  sundayraver [ Tue Jun 26, 2007 11:45 am ]
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Hiya buddy - hey shame about gatecrasher 1 burning down eh? perhaps if it was a week later the rain would have put it out lol

Im in north yorks bud
Author:  Tao [ Tue Jun 26, 2007 12:18 pm ]
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Starbuck:

Sure, I agree with you dude; women (and infact the vast majority of people) are only capable of acting out of self interest. That's natural, and as it should be, nothing personal.
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You, in your incorrect thinking, think if you're kind or nice enough women will see what a great guy you are and give you what you need.
Excellent point (how did you know I think that way?).


sundayraver:

Oh yeah, it's like disaster city in Sheffield right now. Where in North Yorks are you?
Author:  Starbuck [ Tue Jun 26, 2007 12:33 pm ]
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Starbuck:

Sure, I agree with you dude; women (and infact the vast majority of people) are only capable of acting out of self interest. That's natural, and as it should be, nothing personal.
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You, in your incorrect thinking, think if you're kind or nice enough women will see what a great guy you are and give you what you need.
Excellent point (how did you know I think that way?).


sundayraver:

Oh yeah, it's like disaster city in Sheffield right now. Where in North Yorks are you?
Because all of us guys who have any character whatsoever have been raised to think this way.. Chivalrous, etc..

Save this sort of stuff for your wife, if you're lucky enough to find one in this upside down social environment.

The problem is, women often get far too much credit in the seduction game. In reality they are like lost little kittens.

You need to learn to take them by the hand and lead them where you want them to go, gently. Otherwise they get scared and run off, up a tree or something. :roll:

Years ago, I used to go into bars, alone.. Find girls surrounded by guys, and within half a hour be making out with them near the restrooms while the guys they came in with stood around dumbfounded. I even new one in a nearby large city that had a brother that was a local radio personality. The guys she was with were shocked when I said her brother was a 'pussy'. But nonetheless in a few minutes I was necking with her down the hall and they were still sitting their nursing their beers wondering what the heck was going on. I suppose she agreed with my assessment. Today he's a right wing talking head.

I also spent a great deal of time dealing with 'scorned' women (hell hath no fury like a woman scorned).

How did I scorn them you might ask? I didn't move fast enough, they felt rejected and blamed me for my inaction. I was so busy trying to be a gentleman and not force myself on the ladies... Well I suppose they wanted just the opposite. They wanted me to at least try. You know women, us guys are all dogs. And they have expectations. You know wag the tail, jump in their lap and give them wet slobbery licks with our tongues.. :lol:

Alcohol helps remove ones inhibitions. So we all have our problems, shall we say. And nobody is perfect, certainly not me.

So, if you're in a social situation with a woman, and she's friendly or appears into you make a move on her. You don't have anything to lose.

If she's unreceptive for whatever reason, find another one. And just learn what you can and forget about it.

May not be you, probably just be bad timing. Remember women are subject to hormonal fluctuations. Sometimes they want you bad, sometimes they don't care if you fall off a bridge. It's just the way it is.

So, lead, follow or get the hell out of the way. :P Get out there and play the game. Ultimately, they'll respect you for it.

One more thing, be very careful. Use condoms, etc.. I held out for years. And who am I today?

46 yo, married to a woman that makes 5 times as much as the average worker, live in a custom log home I designed and built myself with my wifes bucks, and I do what the f..k I want whenever I want. Only problem? I have no kids. Which isn't all bad.

You get the life you choose. Or you can slave for some other prick all your life for next to nothing. Now go out there and grab it by the horns.. :) And be proud of who you are, to hell with the morons and the detractors who are eaten up with envy, etc... You're unique and special. Time to show the women of the world. They make great friends and allies.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJxxYlcN0Is
Author:  sundayraver [ Tue Jun 26, 2007 3:41 pm ]
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Im near Harrogate mate PM me if u wana msn
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