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Author:  iknsdrv [ Tue Apr 22, 2008 1:17 am ]
Post subject:  New PUA...many a questions!

Hello there...just found this site, seems like everyone is pretty cool!
Anyways...a few questions
From the beginning of my freshman year till about yesterday I've been under the assumption that the nice guys get laid. I have just realized that I have been friend zoning HC's (I think thats what its called, if anyone could lead me to a PUA dictionary it'd be great) left and right. Now I'm pretty sure that you can't remove this zone but I guess people learn from their mistakes. Now I recently met this HC7 and only get about 30 minutes a day to talk with her. Some questions I thought I'd ask are:
~Should I bother to get her AIM screename, or could that possibly lead an unhealthy online relationship?
~I'm about 60% sure that she digs me. Is there any foolproof way to find this out, or should not worry about it and still ask her to go somewhere with me.
~Where should I ask her to go?
~I'm still learning about this whole kino thing...there has to be some sort of guide doesnt there?
~Today she brought up her ex....and I quickly ended the conversation. I think this was the right thing to do...do you?
And finally...is there really anyway to remove the friendzone?

Thanks a lot for the help in advanced...it is greatly appreciated!

Author:  c_n12 [ Tue Apr 22, 2008 1:54 am ]
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Welcome! You sound a lot like me 14 years ago lol. one of your goals should be to maintain that you are in control of your own life and make your own decisions and she doesn't get to mess with that just because she is physically attractive. (that doesn't mean go out of your way to be an ass because no one elaborated with me originally lol) Just think in terms of what you would do for her and how you would respond if she wasn't attractive.

I'll try to run these down for you:

HB is the common term for Hot Babe. You can find a great PUA dictionary @ http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml - Fastseduction.com is an excellent beginners resource in general.

On the AIM screename - they are well and good just make sure you can exercise self control and you don't convey neediness over AIM make sure you use it as a DHV (look it up in the dictionary ).

To find out if a girl likes you learn how to read and look for IOIs. You can find out a lot about this through Google but here's an article as an example: http://en.allexperts.com/q/Know-Really- ... igns-1.htm

Women (because of their estrogen levels) thrive on emotional experiences. Take her someplace fun where you can share a fun and strongly emotional time (I've personally done things like bowling or dancing where we can jump around and laugh and have a good time)

Kino is too complex to cover in a short article but basically do it in steps make sure you slowly escalate the touch at a rate she is comfortable with.

A good thing you can do when a woman brings up an ex is just ignore it and continue with what you were talking about before as if she never said it - It's a shit test and ignoring it will mean you passed it.

- Chris

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