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| Author: | denig13 [ Wed Jul 19, 2017 2:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | disgusted with myself |
I came to this forum, because a person recomended it. I am a truly hopeless case. Too scared to end my life, also too scared to really live. I am at the age of 28 still a virgin, never had a girlfriend. I consider myself ugly. I am not ugly to look at, but you put me on a picture with any other guy, and I'm the worst in terms of looks. Short skiny pale and all the rest. Have no friend or social life. The only thing I thought might help me, was my IQ, which I realize is useless in the 21st century. I don't really know how to use this or any forum, I guess I put these randm thoughs out here, if anyone wants to be pen pall/mentors, any help is appreciated. But as it seems right now, in my mind, I will NEVER sleep with a woman, unless I pay for it or find someone ugly and desperate, moreso than me |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Jul 19, 2017 5:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: disgusted with myself |
Welcome to the forum. After reading that, who would want to be your pen pal or mentor you? No one will want to help you because you are starting out by saying that you're not good enough and then rattle off reasons why. None of the things on the list that you are things that can stop a guy from being good with attractive women. So why should anyone want to spend time helping/mentoring a guy that they would first have to convince you that you're good enough and then take you under his wing to help you do this? |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Wed Jul 19, 2017 5:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: disgusted with myself |
Quote: I am not ugly to look at, but you put me on a picture with any other guy, and I'm the worst in terms of looks.
There's issue numero uno to fix, which is to stop comparing yourself to other men. When you realize that you are just as worthy for companionship, sex and love as any other human being on earth, you will begin to progress.
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jul 19, 2017 6:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: disgusted with myself |
Quote: I am a truly hopeless case.
Stop playing the Victim to circumstances you created. Your goal is not to look for sex or a woman but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.Once we accept our limits, we must go beyond them. Don't wait until everything is just right. you already waited 28 years for something to change for you. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful. I pm'ed you some basics. |
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