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Author:  ztk87 [ Fri Jun 16, 2017 5:48 am ]
Post subject:  get out of the friendzone
hi, so i dated a girl for a long time but when i invited her or asked her out she would accept but when the day of the date came she would invent something and cancelled.

I stopted talking to her and last week she send me a text that she missed my conversations and stuff

she asked me out, asked if i had a girlfriend etc

the day of the date she asked me why did i stopped texting her and i said i didnt want to be friends with her because i dont see her that way but she told me she didnt want anything serious right now

what should i do? i really like this girl
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 16, 2017 10:14 am ]
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Since you doubled posted I'll respond to this post in the other section.

Welcome to the forum:

Heres a few solid links to get you started:

pua-lounge/topic190620.html

closing-and-day/topic189168.html

approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html

Let me know if you have any questions.
Author:  ztk87 [ Fri Jun 16, 2017 2:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: get out of the friendzone
Now she texted me that she thinks we can be friends until she balance her life and she really needs a good friend like me bla bla bla

How should I let her go? I think thats the best way to continue
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 16, 2017 3:49 pm ]
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Now she texted me that she thinks we can be friends until she balance her life and she really needs a good friend like me bla bla bla

How should I let her go? I think thats the best way to continue
By ignoring the message, deleting her number, and moving on with your life.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jun 16, 2017 5:18 pm ]
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Now she texted me that she thinks we can be friends until she balance her life and she really needs a good friend like me bla bla bla

How should I let her go? I think thats the best way to continue
Tell her she has girlfriends for that, you'd rather see her naked. Seriously. Tell her that.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Fri Jun 16, 2017 7:46 pm ]
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Now she texted me that she thinks we can be friends until she balance her life and she really needs a good friend like me bla bla bla

How should I let her go? I think thats the best way to continue
Tell her she has girlfriends for that, you'd rather see her naked. Seriously. Tell her that.

Yes.

Brazen text FTW.

A lot of nice guys would scoff at this, but it's dominant as hell, sexual, to-the-point, and best of all, NOT BORING. It's the kind of thing a woman will remember, even if this seed doesn't bloom right away.

If she walks away, who gives a fuck? You acted dominant.
Author:  ztk87 [ Sat Jun 17, 2017 11:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: get out of the friendzone
she has lots of male friends but anyway I decided to delete her and she hasn't texted me so i won't write her again and if she ever texts me again im gonna ignore her or respond colder

but thanks for your help and i liked that frase about rather seeing her naked gonna use it if ever happens again
Author:  Pilgrim Miester [ Mon Jun 19, 2017 11:30 am ]
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she has lots of male friends but anyway I decided to delete her and she hasn't texted me so i won't write her again and if she ever texts me again im gonna ignore her or respond colder

but thanks for your help and i liked that frase about rather seeing her naked gonna use it if ever happens again
If she has lots of male friends it's bad news and a big red Flag. You will just be added to her collection of orbiters and be sucked in, until she finds her alpha and then the orbiters will wait until it fails or eventually walk away with nothing after wasting months or even years of their time.

You have seen through that and did the best thing and cut her off.

A lot of these types of girls are insecure and them having the ability to pick and chose which guy they want to fuck and also in the case of one girl who I know, they get a kick out of rubbing it in their orbiters face that she is out their league. It makes them feel better and helps with their insecurities.

As for that girl I know, she met her alpha and then cut off her orbiters and built her female friends up by going to social events with other couples.

From what you are saying you are not the guy who can do that and did the right thing. Through time and experience you may conquer a girl like that one day through experience
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jun 19, 2017 4:31 pm ]
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she has lots of male friends
Honestly I don't understand how some guys get all butt hurt by this. 99% of the texts a girl receives are from orbiters, who have 0 chances with her.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Mon Jun 19, 2017 5:34 pm ]
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she has lots of male friends
Honestly I don't understand how some guys get all butt hurt by this. 99% of the texts a girl receives are from orbiters, who have 0 chances with her.

Yeah. most guys don't get that socially valuable women have orbiters. Women are not nuns or sweet princesses.

By remaining emotionally-centered, fun, and good in bed, the orbiters fall away organically.
Author:  CobraKaiDojo [ Mon Jun 26, 2017 10:02 am ]
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Forget about her, contact her in a few months
Author:  ztk87 [ Tue Aug 01, 2017 2:19 am ]
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Forget about her, contact her in a few months
havent spoke to her now she texted me to go out
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue Aug 01, 2017 2:46 am ]
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See how this works?

Patience is catnip for women.
Author:  oceanx [ Tue Aug 01, 2017 5:51 am ]
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she has lots of male friends
Honestly I don't understand how some guys get all butt hurt by this. 99% of the texts a girl receives are from orbiters, who have 0 chances with her.
Fucking bingo. Look at all men on earth as guys who don't possess game or swag because by definition only an infinitesimal amount do, in that they are able to go up to a random woman and have her be attracted and down within minutes. When you get this shit down, they way you say "hey" has their pussy tingling.
Author:  Arch Stanton [ Tue Aug 01, 2017 6:25 am ]
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When you get this shit down, they way you say "hey" has their pussy tingling.
Spot on.

You know you have it in the bag, and if it doesn't happen, you don't care. And it comes out in the "hey" and it makes them perk up really fast. "whoa, this guy is different."
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