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| Author: | John1995 [ Mon Jun 12, 2017 1:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Newbie in need of a miracle |
Hi there my name is John and I am in my final year of university. I heard about this forum through a good friend of mine. I am super outgoing and can talk to anyone for hrs on any given topics. However I am always in a friend zone and can never tell if a women is in or me or not. I am 5ft 8 and I am not terrible to look at. I am quite scared of rejection which makes it very difficult to make the first move. I am looking for ways to better understand women and myself. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jun 12, 2017 11:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newbie in need of a miracle |
Welcome to the Forum John. An easy way to learn whether or not a woman is interested in you when she either rejects or accepts your attempts at escalation. If you're playing it safe and just "talking" and aren't making no moves to imply to her than you have sexual interest how can she see you as anything else? Welcome again though.. Spend sometime on he forum reading up and try the newbies challenge. Heres a few solid links to get you started: pua-lounge/topic190620.html closing-and-day/topic189168.html approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html Let me know if you have any questions. |
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| Author: | ResearchSarge [ Tue Jun 13, 2017 1:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newbie in need of a miracle |
Day Bang by Roosh V. Have not finished but greatly enjoying it so far. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Tue Jun 13, 2017 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newbie in need of a miracle |
Quote: I am quite scared of rejection which makes it very difficult to make the first move. I am looking for ways to better understand women and myself.
Thankfully no miracle is required. What is required is to do what many of us had to do when we were in your situation: Put your balls on the line. When you speak to a woman, speak to her as though you're already close with her romantically in a non-creepy way. Women are mirrors so if she's into you she'll mirror back your vibe. From there, arrange a meeting. The man's role is to lead. Do so and reap the rewards for you and her. Remember, presuming she's interested in you, she desperately WANTS you to take the lead. What helped me when I got started was to think of every interaction as a test of whether I was a man or not. Your first "approach" where you spot a cute girl and you have the intention to speak to her not as a potential bff will probably be the most difficult one you will ever do because when you do that, you will be immediately and forever breaking free from years of inaction and hesitation. The good thing is that it's all downhill from there. The rewards are most definitely there, and doing this can set off positive changes in other areas as well. But you have to be willing to do what most guys never will: Put some skin in the game and take a risk. If you tell your ego to fuck off and you get in the game, it'll be because eventually the pain of not blossoming outweighs the pain of blossoming. |
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| Author: | CobraKaiDojo [ Mon Jun 26, 2017 10:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newbie in need of a miracle |
Welcome mate, sounds like you got all the ingredients for success now you just need to follow the recipe and take action. Remember: Quote: It does not matter whether a move works or not. JUST BE A GUY THAT MAKES MOVES
Even if a girl "rejects" you sometimes that it just a test to see how you react. Stay calm, and try on 4 separate occasions (you can space them out). After 4 tries and nothing in return, next and move on. Good luck
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