What's up everyone.
I don't intend on posting a lot as I don't really have much to offer other than questions.
I'm new to pick-up and I have a question in an area I need help on. I need 30 posts to start a new topic and I don't want to spam up the boards by posting 29 useless comments trying to build that up.
A bit of what I know: I've read The Game, The Mystery Method, David Deangelo's Ebook and I am on day 5 of The Rules Of The Game.
I understand the interaction. But factual knowledge is no substitute for experience. As I am fairly new to "in-field" operation I am lacking that experience. I am confident enough to approach without any nerves hindering me and I do feel that I am more accepted than somebody who has no game at all. I peacock and time constraint always.
My question: This past weekend I went out and was fine opening sets. Example of what I did:
Me: Hey, you're a girl and I need you to answer a question.
Her: Okay
Me: I was talking to four girls down there (point) and they said I remind them of a guy called "Mr. Big" from Sex & The City. I don't watch the show so I wondered, is that a good thing or not?
Her: Yeah, it's a good thing.
Me: Okay cool. I got to get back to my group but my friend told me something pretty interesting. Check this out. My buddy has been going out with this girl for about three months. She happens to be bi. He was okay with that and things were going really well. Anyway they were in a bar a few days ago and he saw her talking to his ex girlfriend who also happened to be there. When she came back, he asked her how she knows his ex. Turns out, she happens to be his girlfriends ex too! Now he doesn't know how to feel about that. What do you think, you think he should carry on seeing her?
Her: (Laughed at story) Yeah, he should carry on.
Okay it's at this point were I tend to draw blanks. I run out of things to say and how to transition NATURALLY into another routine. So instead of making it awkward I bail and say:
Cool, anyway I should get back to my friends. Nice talking to you!
I figured that because that was were I kept on getting stuck I would just keep bailing at around that point if for nothing other than the experience.
Can somebody suggest a way for me to tackle this problem. Bear in mind that neither of us ever felt that uncomfortable creepy stranger guy feeling. So I guess the little that I did do, I did pretty well. Looking back I should have been body-rocking more. Also, although it was never uncomfortable, I didn't feel it was appropriate to initiate kino without becoming Mr. Touchy-Feely.
I wore a really cool chequered trilby and a lot of girls approached me and asked me to wear it or grabbed its brim. A story I came up with (just trying to be cocky) was that it was an actual hat worn by Usher which he threw into a crowd and I happened to catch. It worked.
Thanks guys and again, sorry for posting this here.
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