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Author:  DONJAYROCK [ Wed Jan 18, 2017 11:29 am ]
Post subject:  Bonjor!
Hi there

I'm Jay and Im getting involved in the pickup arena to get consistently laid and boost my confidence around women, get outside of my comfort zone and to essentially grow as a man!

A bit of background about me; I'm in my mid 20s from Manchester and have a condition called aspergers, a form of autism which mainly affects my social skills and ability to read social cues which has lead to me not having much of a social life and thus scarce success with girls throughout my teenage years.
I'm passionate about football, astronomy, entreprenuership and listen to various types of music. I was born here but my background is Jamaican.

As mentioned above I dont have much of a social life therefore it would be hard for me to accomplish nightgame solo however doing daygame on a regular basis would be a great way to commence my journey and easier to do alone.
I'd definitely be up for linking up with a few folk from this forum to help one another with approaching and to be wingmen.

Thanks for reading my post, I hope to reuly learn and develop my pickup skills within this community.
Author:  Magic90210 [ Wed Jan 18, 2017 1:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bonjor!
Welcome and congratulations on finding your way here. I believe that you can overcome your autistic barrier. You seem bright and articulate just from what you've already written in this post. As for nightgame I think you can accomplish this as well even going out solo. I go out solo sometimes. Just last night I picked up a bartender's number when I got off of work. Don't give up, believe in yourself and get to socialize with other people besides the target woman you have selected. You never know if you play your cards right you might end up hooking up with someone other than your intended target.
Author:  DONJAYROCK [ Thu Jan 19, 2017 3:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bonjor!
Quote:
Welcome and congratulations on finding your way here. I believe that you can overcome your autistic barrier. You seem bright and articulate just from what you've already written in this post. As for nightgame I think you can accomplish this as well even going out solo. I go out solo sometimes. Just last night I picked up a bartender's number when I got off of work. Don't give up, believe in yourself and get to socialize with other people besides the target woman you have selected. You never know if you play your cards right you might end up hooking up with someone other than your intended target.
Thanks for reading and replying to my post Magic90210 and for your kind words!

I really hope I can overcome this stifling autism barrier however its difficult when you bear in mind the key to meeting girls and general pickup is socialisation and possessing the ability to understand satire, social cues and various body languagues; which is something we aspies lack in abundance lol.
Regardless I am a man whose glass is always half full hence why I've joined the community to gain the skills to perform pickup and advance.

Well done with the bartender mate; if you dont get your way with her ensure you remain friends and you may get a discount on drinks :wink:
Ive always imagined girls that work at bars are tough to pick up as surely tons of men every day would be attempting it, nevertheless I'll try tomorrow night! :D
Author:  Magic90210 [ Fri Jan 20, 2017 1:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bonjor!
Have a great time sarging tomorrow. If you drink alcohol pace yourself and don't get too drunk. Drink water in-between. It's good to have a drink in your hand so you don't feel out of place. If you don't drink alcohol order a "soda water (tonic water) with a lime" and tell the bartender you are a designated driver for the night.

The soda water and lime appears to be a "gin and tonic" and in a loud and crowded venue no one else would ever know the difference if you are seeking to be deceptive.

Let all the girls and everyone else get wasted and play your cards right by staying in control.

Don't have alot of expectations and remember it's okay if you get rejected. It happens sometimes. Just focus on making conversations with both men and women. Make "small chat" and if you can take it further do so. Test your skills, have a good time and maybe get a phone number.

As far as the bartender goes it's best to pick her up on a slower night. I wouldn't recommend it since you are just starting out. If anything try to meet some new friends in your area (men or women), grab a few numbers so you can link up with them again in the future.

Best wishes to you.
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